Right.

And, you know, then we started doing it with parents and children.

Uh, with my own children, I went back to them and said, "I think I missed some things with you.

This is what comes to my mind.

What else do you think I missed?" ...

with you.

And let me caution everybody, when you ask people that, they'll tell you.

... for you to, um, do it as well.

So I'm just like, yeah, I would just as soon know that in the first 30 minutes of being, you know, with somebody.

Yeah.

And this and I love learning about the connection codes and Bridget, you've helped me learn a lot.

about the connection codes.

And that was, this is one of them that, and again, sounds somewhat pejorative, misogynistic, but it's just the way the culture is right now where, you know, this couple's dating and three, four, five, six years in, she finds out he's not safe.

for me and then she connects with another guy three four five six years in and now she's 30 32 34 35 and she's like well dang i thought i'd be married and have kids by now and i think a lot of times she ends up settling for the next guy it's like well you know i'll just overlook this overlook that and it could be in reverse as well uh but i think typically the the female ends up stuck in those scenarios just culturally uh women are just so much more advanced spiritually, emotionally, as far as my experience, than men are.

So what, you know, Bridget taught me is that you actually can find out, and 30 minutes would be awesome, but even if it's three days, three weeks, three months, that's a heck of a lot faster than six years.

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