shell.

And so then I...

Strategic then.

Right, right.

And I'm like, well, let me grow a personality.

I'm four.

Okay.

no

W- did that sentence give you relief as well? What did, how did that make you feel hearing her say that?

Well, and it wasn't just that.

It was that she said, "I feel different.

My brain works differently." She, because Charlie, um, sometimes she has these very, very clear moments where- She says things that are so emotionally intelligent.

She understands herself more than anybody else.

And then it c- can kind of go away, and she'll just go on with her day and whatever, but, but when she's clear, it is, "You better listen, 'cause you're getting the answers right there," and that's, that's what she was doing.

She said, "I, I feel different.

What should parents know or think to ask for or look for if they're trying to find the right environment, and how does, how does a parent maybe know if a school isn't serving their child anymore and their needs?

Mm-hmm.

I...

And, and it goes in line with are they your people? Because it, there's a difference between always trying to chase the validation of the person that you think belongs in your life, and you'll know in your gut if that ke- if that feeling keeps happening, they're probably not your person.

And you're just gonna know when you've got your people because those people, it's always gonna be a dance.

There isn't gonna be a time where you're showing up fully always for someone.

It just doesn't happen.

It's, it's, you're, it...

Mm-hmm.

Mm-hmm.

I...

And, and it goes in line with are they your people? Because it, there's a difference between always trying to chase the validation of the person that you think belongs in your life, and you'll know in your gut if that ke- if that feeling keeps happening, they're probably not your person.

And you're just gonna know when you've got your people because those people, it's always gonna be a dance.

There isn't gonna be a time where you're showing up fully always for someone.

It just doesn't happen.

It's, it's, you're, it...

Mm-hmm.