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Leah

Leah

Jacob's wife

May 23, 2026

EricHOST
46:14
Honestly, yes.
LeahGUEST
46:15
Yeah.
LeahGUEST
46:15
I think I'm gonna do close to mile two, and then run over to 12 and see her come back.

17 MINS LATER

EricHOST
62:55
And don't forget to stretch.
LeahGUEST
62:57
Three, two, one, yeah.
LeahGUEST
63:01
[upbeat music] Hey.
LeahGUEST
63:13
Do it.
LeahGUEST
63:20
Yeah, yeah.
KayaHOST
21:09
... that we didn't even see.
LeahGUEST
21:12
That's why I said send her a bill.
LeahGUEST
21:14
She'd be getting a pretty little bill in the mail because the amount of t- it's nauseating.
LeahGUEST
21:20
Like it, it, it's nauseating how much t- And I, that's why I have a rule now.
LeahGUEST
21:26
I'm so sorry, but I'm not friends with people who are...
LeahGUEST
21:31
It's not that you can't be unhappy in your marriage.
LeahGUEST
21:34
If that's your entire personality, you, it's, y- uh, "Hey, what's up? Vent, vent, vent, vent, vent." There's nothing else to talk about, just my, I hate my husband, this is going on.

18 MINS LATER

KayaHOST
40:13
That girl is pure bonafide evil.
6:04
Leah, good morning.
LeahGUEST
6:04
morning.Good morning.
LeahGUEST
6:07
So one thing I try to do every summer is organize our events around summer activities that I can bring Cora to, that she enjoys, and that we can invite other families to.
LeahGUEST
6:21
And families are definitely, um, one of the b- focus areas of mine, specifically upsizers.
LeahGUEST
6:29
So we do everything from a scavenger hunt in a local park where we invite our, the families in our database.
LeahGUEST
6:38
Um, we've done movies in a local park.
LeahGUEST
6:41
Those two, first two examples are free.
7:18
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
5:32
You're getting away with it.
LeahGUEST
5:33
Exactly.
LeahGUEST
5:34
And so, um, [laughs] I've essentially just stayed at my cut calories since then, because if I, if I target those calories, then I can maintain for the most part.
LeahGUEST
5:47
I mean, I actually am up higher now, um, and I should, I do want to go back into a cut and actually try to focus on it.

9 MINS LATER

14:47
I don't know if that offers anything for you a- as you start to think about this.
LeahGUEST
14:52
No, it does.
LeahGUEST
14:54
It does.
LeahGUEST
14:55
Um, I guess what I'm kind of thinking is...
2:36
Mm-hmm.
LeahGUEST
2:37
And life for me as a child was...
LeahGUEST
2:40
On the outside to everybody else looked, you know, wonderful and great, and at a certain point, you know, we had a big house and, and, you know, people just assume somebody with a, a big beautiful house, you know, all these physical things, must be happy and everything's great.
LeahGUEST
2:56
But for me as a kid, from my earliest memories, um, I always felt like, um, I was not s- didn't feel safe in my envi- in my home environment.
LeahGUEST
3:07
Um, I went through s- um, physical and emotional abuse.
LeahGUEST
3:11
Um, it was just a place where I didn't wanna be.
LeahGUEST
3:15
Um, like I said, it looked like on the outside to others that, you know, a great place to live, but for me, a home...

27 MINS LATER

30:15
Right.
KayaHOST
12:51
[laughs]
LeahGUEST
12:51
Yeah.
LeahGUEST
12:52
That's not working.
LeahGUEST
12:54
Um, she's gonna...
LeahGUEST
12:56
Like, he's gonna cut her into a million pieces or whatever he does with his laser vision.
LeahGUEST
13:01
Um, I was shocked that Hughie and Butcher had a backup plan, and I thought, 'cause I thought they were screwed.
LeahGUEST
13:10
So I was shocked that they got control back over that situation.

26 MINS LATER

KayaHOST
39:03
Because as much as we hold a grudge as an audience for what Cassie did, she also is saying things that are true, and that's how you should go about life.
KayaHOST
13:08
And what pisses me off is, what I'll say about this is the last thing that pisses me off about this, is that I genuinely can tell that he is more upset that he hurt KJ rather than the fact that he changed Sierra's life for the worse.
LeahGUEST
13:27
Mm-hmm.
LeahGUEST
13:28
It's the, it's the misogyny, it's the b- it's the boys thing and it's, but it's also like I don't, I don't even believe the text.
LeahGUEST
13:36
Like I don't even know if he really cares about KJ.
LeahGUEST
13:39
Like because I'm, my thing is like as I reread it I'm like there's not one sentence in here...
LeahGUEST
13:46
Oh, I'm sorry, there is.
LeahGUEST
13:47
Okay.

32 MINS LATER

KayaHOST
45:52
Have you lost your mind?
13:45
[instrumental music] Leah, a registered midwife for just over 12 years, began her midwifery journey in the aftermath of a birth that left her with a lingering question.
LeahGUEST
13:57
[instrumental music] Like many midwives, I came to midwifery as a mature student because I had a bit of a rubbish birth.
LeahGUEST
14:13
If you had told me growing up that I would be a midwife, I think I would have been very confused.
LeahGUEST
14:18
[laughs] It definitely wasn't something that was on my radar at all.
LeahGUEST
14:22
In fact, having babies wasn't on my radar at all.
LeahGUEST
14:28
I met the right person, got married, decided to start a family, and I had thought I was really well-prepared for birth.
LeahGUEST
14:36
I'd always had a bit of an interest in women's health, and I read widely around pregnancy and birth.

9 MINS LATER

speaker_8ADVERTISER
24:01
acast.com.
9:32
Leah.
LeahGUEST
9:33
Hello, I'm Leah and I'm playing Glade Walker.
LeahGUEST
9:36
And Glade rarely takes meds of any kind.
LeahGUEST
9:41
She usually plays it off as, like, toughing it out, but no, fucking child safety locking lids on, like, medicine stuff-
9:58
I can't have my mind dulled," but really you just see her in the dark just like-
LeahGUEST
10:01
Pain just makes me stronger.
LeahGUEST
10:03
[laughs]
26:41
Oh, boy
LeahGUEST
26:41
... we're gonna roll with it.
LeahGUEST
26:42
[upbeat music] So Friday night comes around, January, it's freezing cold.
LeahGUEST
27:02
Monica, as you know, the best part of going out is the getting ready.
LeahGUEST
27:05
We're getting ready in the dorms.
LeahGUEST
27:06
Skater skirts, peplum tops, big chunky Charlie's necklace.
LeahGUEST
27:10
We're ready to go.

6 MINS LATER

speaker_10UNKNOWN
33:12
... pull off the necklace and throw it?
KayaHOST
34:26
Um, what did you think about obviously the conversation, the big conversation between those two?
LeahGUEST
34:32
Um, yeah, I think he's manipulative.
LeahGUEST
34:34
I think he's a child.
LeahGUEST
34:35
I think he's a coward.
LeahGUEST
34:37
I think his true feelings have dropped many, many, many a times this summer.
LeahGUEST
34:41
He resents Sierra.
LeahGUEST
34:42
He hates the fact that he has to walk on eggshells.
KayaHOST
36:45
Oh, please just go off
2:52
So let's talk about what did your journey look like before Warrior Babe? Like, what were you struggling with physically and emotionally during that time?
LeahGUEST
3:00
Do you have the time? Um, so in all honesty, so I grew up active my entire life.
LeahGUEST
3:07
A athlete from the age of four, collegiate athlete with a couple years under my belt.
LeahGUEST
3:13
Then unfortunately, injuries and surgeries, um, shorted my career.
LeahGUEST
3:18
Uh, but I was always working out.
LeahGUEST
3:20
I was always in the gym.
LeahGUEST
3:21
I was always able to, um...

35 MINS LATER

38:37
Yeah.
21:51
Mm-hmm.
LeahGUEST
21:51
And I make a post to my family and friends, "Does anyone have any recommendations? What do you guys think?" And really quickly, I get a message back from my cousin, and she's like, "Hey, I used to work with this one girl, super sweet.
LeahGUEST
22:05
She quit her job to pursue photography full time.
LeahGUEST
22:08
She's super nice.
LeahGUEST
22:09
I think you'll love her.
LeahGUEST
22:10
Reach out." So I go to her Facebook page.
LeahGUEST
22:13
I go to her website.
24:36
Docile.
5:30
No pressure, just hanging out, having fun, and getting to know each other.
LeahGUEST
5:33
The first few dates we would just do very normal activities, like going to the beach, going on a walk, going to a cafe, and the most boring activities were just so much fun, because he was just so funny and engaged, and just, he just wanted to have a good time.
LeahGUEST
5:48
Like, just getting to know each other just felt so effortless.
LeahGUEST
5:52
The first kiss was in the car after one of the dates.
LeahGUEST
5:57
I just always felt like he was more into me than I was into him, and I kinda liked that, 'cause I feel like normally y- y- I feel like I'm always chasing people who don't like me.
LeahGUEST
6:06
[laughs]When we saw each other, it was definitely in odd times because his schedule was varied and so was mine.
LeahGUEST
6:14
And so it was in odd times, but we'd always make an effort because we did live close by to see each other, even if it was at night or in the morning.

18 MINS LATER

24:03
But dear listener, you can see by how long this episode has left the story isn't finished just yet.
ChrisGUEST
129:35
Mm-hmm.
LeahGUEST
129:35
Okay, cool.
LeahGUEST
129:36
I gotta, you know.
LeahGUEST
129:36
But we did and we, um, she understood.
LeahGUEST
129:38
I think her biggest concern was, like, I've lived alone.
LeahGUEST
129:42
They're used to h- being around their family.
LeahGUEST
129:43
I was like, "I love ha- hanging out and having parties." I was like, "But does the door lock?" You know what I mean? But [laughs] but that was, like, her biggest thing.

11 MINS LATER

ChrisGUEST
141:13
Yeah
102:41
Had you dated younger men before? Was that something that you found yourself doing, or was a relationship with Chris something that was new for you?
LeahGUEST
102:49
So I've dated both older and younger.
LeahGUEST
102:51
So when I was younger, I dated older.
LeahGUEST
102:52
When I was now older, the young ones come to me, 'cause I don't look my age, and I just don't even tell them anymore, 'cause they don't believe me.
LeahGUEST
103:00
And so when I've, when Chris came, what, 26? I was like, you know what? He said he's, he, he ma- he was, came to me very confidently.
LeahGUEST
103:09
Like, the way he looked at me, and then he said he made money.
LeahGUEST
103:12
I was like, well, he's, sounds like he's set, you know? He knows what he wants and who he is.

10 MINS LATER

speaker_17PANELIST
113:32
I-
85:04
Mm-hmm.
LeahGUEST
85:04
And, um, so I brought it in on a Monday, or a, a Tuesday rather.
LeahGUEST
85:11
Um, um, everyone else happened to be remote that day except for my boss, and I gave her one.
LeahGUEST
85:17
She tried it.
LeahGUEST
85:18
Um, and then she left.
LeahGUEST
85:21
Our cleaning lady came in, and I shared one with her.
LeahGUEST
85:24
She left, and I was the last one in the office.
86:04
Chocolate thief
HeathHOST
7:21
[laughs]
LeahGUEST
7:21
So obviously I'm fucking wrong, right? So they pay for my water, not my gas.
LeahGUEST
7:25
So anyways, they turn the gas off.
LeahGUEST
7:26
Three days later the girl calls me, and she's like, um, "Okay, yeah, perfect." And keep in mind my gas has already been off for about five days now that I've figured this out to call them, whatever, yada, yada, yada.
HeathHOST
7:55
Mm
LeahGUEST
7:55
...
LeahGUEST
7:55
if I had to, which was fine.
LeahGUEST
7:56
We got through it.
50:15
Does nobody go in the water in Australia? Is that, like, a thing?
LeahGUEST
50:18
I, I dove in.
LeahGUEST
50:18
We went on this cruise, and there's these, um, jellyfish.
LeahGUEST
50:22
It's, it was jellyfish sting season, and they're the size of your thumbnail.
LeahGUEST
50:26
And if they sting you, you start to hallucinate, and they have to airlift you out and take you to the hospital.
speaker_14PANELIST
54:22
It's, [laughs] yeah.
LeahGUEST
54:23
There was a story once that it was like this person had a snake, and they were sleeping with it, and the snake was, like, uh, for s- I can't even remember how long, but he was stretching his body out to, like, basically consume the human.
12:17
Mm-hmm.Black woman's not quite the same deal.
LeahGUEST
12:19
No.
LeahGUEST
12:19
And there is reality to that.
LeahGUEST
12:21
It troubles the mind that, um, when, uh, people of color go missing...
LeahGUEST
12:27
Or if it doesn't fit the narrative of gun violence or gang violence, or something like that, then somehow it's not, uh, it's not, it's not real.

24 MINS LATER

36:30
He talked to a newspaper columnist who wrote sympathetically about his treatment in jail.And every delay, every manipulation was slow torture.
LeahGUEST
36:41
I very much believe that everyone should have a fair and just trial.
LeahGUEST
36:45
And that too often, people who are poor or people of color do not, um, uh, or most often, they don't get proper representation and they don't get a fair shake in our court system.
Matt King
Matt KingPANELIST
38:08
Mm-hmm.
LeahGUEST
38:08
I didn't realize that they were all stopping.
LeahGUEST
38:10
And I got so lucky, because happened to be a guy visiting, and, um, he was renting the car.
LeahGUEST
38:18
And so I was like, he didn't speak, like, barely any English.
LeahGUEST
38:21
And I was like, "Oh my God, I'm so sorry." He's like, "Well, I'm renting this car.
LeahGUEST
38:23
I'm going to Vegas, like, da, da, da, da." And I was like, "Okay, well, do you want my information?" He goes, "I'm renting it." I go, "Okay, well, I don't...
LeahGUEST
38:30
Do you want my information? Like, I don't know."

18 MINS LATER

Matt King
Matt KingPANELIST
56:08
Mm-hmm.
68:19
And, and, and do you know what you want to d- Do you want to go into the sciences, Leah, when you get, uh, when you get older?
LeahGUEST
68:24
Mm, maybe.
LeahGUEST
68:25
I like ...
LeahGUEST
68:26
I enjoy learning about, like, a lot of science stuff.
HeatherGUEST
68:41
[laughs]
LeahGUEST
68:41
I don't know.
LeahGUEST
68:42
I like a lot of the science stuff.
0:40
And we catch up with a transgender teen and her parents who moved out of Texas because of the state's ban on transgender healthcare for minors.
LeahGUEST
0:49
I heard so, so, so much from the kids at school and just from people in Texas in general that I started to question, am I the problem? (instrumental music)

51 MINS LATER

William Brangham
William BranghamCORRESPONDENT
52:40
Leah says despite all her parents' efforts, the pressure on trans people in America is pervasive and it's hard to keep it at bay.
LeahGUEST
52:49
Transitioning is like the best thing that's ever happened to me, so like I never take that back.
LeahGUEST
52:55
Now that I'm here with my people that want to protect me, I mean, it's a totally different mindset 'cause at some point it did feel like (sighs) I had heard so, so, so much from the kids at school and just from people in Texas in general that I started to question, am I the problem? (crying)
13:47
It's not meant to withstand Seattle rain 24/7.
LeahGUEST
13:52
A lot of people out here have been in crisis, like something happened in their life, a change, a death.
LeahGUEST
13:56
Like, they lose somebody or something changes in their life and they- they don't overcome it and, um, whether they start using in their old life and that makes things fall apart or they're out here and trying to- to adapt and they start using, for me, that's what happened.
LeahGUEST
14:09
Uh, my son died, my teenage son died and then my husband died a year after that.
LeahGUEST
14:14
And I was just newly out of re- on medical leave from my job, so I was like for the first time in my life not working.
LeahGUEST
14:21
Not a mom, not a wife, you know, and each person is, uh, we're only had things in common is not having a house, but what we have in common is that something happened that we weren't able to overcome.
16:28
She would rather have a roof, but for lack of a comprehensive social safety net, Leah and so many other people can only rely on their gear.
LeahGUEST
16:40
I have a backpack that's a body size and it has everything I own in it and we put that somewhere and hide till I keep it safe, but a lot of folks are just like backpack bag and tent and sleeping bag.
30:56
Is that hard to do sometimes? Like, do you ever come up with a character that is so different from you that you have a hard time relating to them?
LeahGUEST
31:04
Yeah, sometimes.
LeahGUEST
31:06
But I really just try to focus on, like, the emotion of the character at the time and, like, if I've ever been, like, under that pressure or s- or, like, that circumstance.
LeahGUEST
31:16
Like, I try to just picture that feeling again and capture it.
31:23
If you had to give advice to your brother or someone else about writing a story, and maybe they don't know where to start, what kind of advice would you give them?
LeahGUEST
31:34
Well, first think about what you've done in your life, like if, if any, like, exciting, big stories, things like that.
LeahGUEST
31:41
And then try to come up with a character who might have trouble with some of those things, and just sort of work, uh, on from there.
LeahGUEST
31:48
Like, try to see how that character might have done some of the things maybe you have done.

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