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Julie Brumley

Julie Brumley

Trauma-informed adoptee coach and founder/CEO of Coming Home to Self, and host of The Resilience Project podcast on adoptee healing and self-belonging.

Aug 14, 2026

2:15
And yet there's still this quiet place inside that can't fully exhale.
2:19
Today, I am sitting down with two women, you just heard them, that I trust deeply to talk about that place and what becomes possible when you stop meeting it alone.
2:31
Today's episode is clearly a little different, and honestly, you're going to love it.
2:36
I'm joined by two women who have become true co-laborers in this work with me, Becki Asté and Bridget Coville.
2:45
Becki is a trauma-informed somatic marriage coach.
2:48
Y'all know that I work with her as her client support coach and love it.
2:52
She works with the 93% of communication that isn't spoken.

34 MINS LATER

36:28
And so I'm really excited to do this again with you ladies.
5:48
We're going to tag team, ask you some questions back and forth.
5:51
Yeah.
5:52
I remember when I first had a coaching session with you and And we talk about this all the time, even now.
6:01
There was darkness behind you.
6:03
You were not illuminated.
6:07
It was like you almost wanted to not be seen in those moments.
6:11
And I remember just feeling this immense darkness.

16 MINS LATER

22:18
But if it's made clear that this process and this healing journey more calls him out, and he doesn't want to walk that path, he doesn't want to heal with you, It's a win-win either way.

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