Bite Size Bish: The Valley Reunion Pt. 3

So the Valley reunion part three was very interesting.

I felt like it should have been called like the Valley colon maladaptive coping strategies, because I feel like that was the whole thing of the night, like starting with Danny, like in the beginning, when we start off talking about Danny's alcohol use, he was talking about at the finale party.

He was so intoxicated, you know, that he could barely stand.

And he was telling the group, you know, I've never been this intoxicated since then.

I have been in therapy and I am really looking at my relationship with alcohol.

And I was like, bro, your own words and actions at this reunion are telling me that this is a lie.

And here's why I say that.

You cannot be examining your relationship with anything.

alcohol, food, sex, relationships, substances, non-substances, gambling, all of it.

You cannot examine your relationship with any of that without accountability, rigorous honesty, and ownership.

I mean, literally, those are the components that you need to learn and grow.

And so Danny is just like this whole reunion.

He just like did more of the same.

He's saying the right things But his behaviors tell me that he's not doing what he's saying, which is no surprise to me.

So the group called out his BS and then talked about an incident that happened after Jasmine and Melissa's wedding.

It was like an after party.

But there were so many people talking and it was hard to parse out.

So here's what I got from that.

There were two things.

So there was an after party where Nia told Zach that.

Don't tell Daniel, which I think it's so funny, by the way, that Nia calls him Daniel because, like, here's the thing I'm going to say.

I'm a huge nickname person.

When I love people, when I'm fond of somebody, I love a nickname.

I think her consistently using, like, the name Daniel, it just furthers this dynamic that she's, like, a parent and he's, like, a child, you know? But Nia asks Zach not to tell Daniel about the after party because Danny...

cannot control his drinking when he does drink it's very apparent so lala was saying that that's a red flag which by the way it is and i'm going to explain that in a minute but then the other piece was that jesse which he was like reluctantly talking about this because you know red pill bros got to stick together i guess at least that's what i'm gathering from this