It is confidence.
It's presence magic.
It is a magical form of deciding how you want to feel when you enter a room and then intentionally using everyday beauty rituals, your appearance, your scent, your clothing, uh, your makeup, your jewelry, your hair, your body, and even the way that you carry yourself to reinforce that intention.
It's not necessarily about fooling people.
It's not a trick.
It's about influencing perception, but that also includes influencing your own perception of yourself.
And that is why I think everybody, regardless of gender, regardless of age, should be doing some form of glamour magic, even if they don't really care how, quote, unquote, "attractive" they appear to other people.
I don't care if you wear a full face of makeup every morning or absolutely nothing on your face ever.
I don't care if you are covered in tattoos or you don't have a single one.
I don't care if your idea of getting dressed up is putting on lipstick and earrings or it's putting on your hoodie and maybe or maybe not brushing your hair.
It's about taking something you already do or something you already enjoy and giving it intention because that's the thing about magic.
We already ritualize our lives constantly.
We just don't always call it or recognize it as magic.
So, think about the way that you get ready when you're trying to go somewhere important.
Maybe you take a shower, you wash your hair, you moisturize, makeup, spray on perfume, put on your favorite outfit and jewelry, and you look in the mirror and something shifts.
You feel different from your normal every day.
You stand differently.
You walk differently.
You interact with people differently.
That's already a transformation in and of itself.
You know how, like, some people say, "Wow, you clean up good"? That's a transformation already.
That's step one of this.
It is confidence.
It's presence magic.
It is a magical form of deciding how you want to feel when you enter a room and then intentionally using everyday beauty rituals, your appearance, your scent, your clothing, uh, your makeup, your jewelry, your hair, your body, and even the way that you carry yourself to reinforce that intention.
It's not necessarily about fooling people.
It's not a trick.
It's about influencing perception, but that also includes influencing your own perception of yourself.
And that is why I think everybody, regardless of gender, regardless of age, should be doing some form of glamour magic, even if they don't really care how, quote, unquote, "attractive" they appear to other people.
I don't care if you wear a full face of makeup every morning or absolutely nothing on your face ever.
I don't care if you are covered in tattoos or you don't have a single one.
I don't care if your idea of getting dressed up is putting on lipstick and earrings or it's putting on your hoodie and maybe or maybe not brushing your hair.
It's about taking something you already do or something you already enjoy and giving it intention because that's the thing about magic.
We already ritualize our lives constantly.
We just don't always call it or recognize it as magic.
So, think about the way that you get ready when you're trying to go somewhere important.
Maybe you take a shower, you wash your hair, you moisturize, makeup, spray on perfume, put on your favorite outfit and jewelry, and you look in the mirror and something shifts.
You feel different from your normal every day.
You stand differently.
You walk differently.
You interact with people differently.
That's already a transformation in and of itself.
You know how, like, some people say, "Wow, you clean up good"? That's a transformation already.
That's step one of this.
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