Phyllis

In this episode of *Who’s the Daddy? w/ Alexandra K.*, I sit down with Phyllis, a nurse, veteran, and Single Mom By Choice (SMBC), to discuss her journey to solo motherhood and the decision to build a family on her own terms. While stationed in Japan, Phyllis began rethinking the traditional path to motherhood. Inspired by the book *Single Mothers by Choice*, she discovered that she didn’t have to wait for a partner to pursue the future she wanted. But choosing to become a single mother by choice came with challenges. Phyllis shares her experiences navigating medical professionals who struggled to understand her decision, managing mixed reactions from family members, and selecting a sperm donor. She also discusses how she talks to her daughter about donor conception and teaches her that families come in all forms. **In this episode, we discuss:** • What inspired Phyllis to become a Single Mom By Choice • How *Single Mothers by Choice* helped her discover an alternative path to motherhood • Navigating fertility care when medical professionals don’t understand your decision • Choosing a sperm donor and involving family and friends in the process • Handling family resistance while standing firm in your decision • Talking to children about donor conception and different family structures • Building a family without waiting for a romantic partner Whether you’re considering becoming a Single Mom By Choice, exploring sperm donor options, or simply curious about the different ways families are built, Phyllis’s story is a reminder that motherhood doesn’t have to follow a traditional timeline. **About Who’s the Daddy? w/ Alexandra K.** *Who’s the Daddy? w/ Alexandra K.* is the podcast where we discuss all things Single Mom By Choice. Through honest conversations and personal stories, we explore solo motherhood, IVF, sperm donors, donor conception, and the many ways women are choosing to build their families. Our goal is to share stories that create representation, foster community, and remind women that they aren’t alone in their journey. **Stay Connected** 🤍 🎙️ **Follow the podcast:** Instagram: @WhosTheDaddyPod Subscribe or follow *Who’s the Daddy? w/ Alexandra K.* on your favorite podcast platform so you never miss an episode! 👋🏾 **Connect with Alexandra K.:** Instagram: @LifeWithAlexandraK ✨ **Follow Phyllis:** Instagram: @Mommy.Marron Thank you for listening! Share this episode with a woman who might need to hear Phyllis’s story. And remember, keep discovering and choosing the life that’s best for you!