When Sex Goes “Wrong,” You Play! (My Embarrassing Sex Stories—and Yours) #444

And anyone can handle this in different ways.

This is how I handled it.

So one story is...

Let's see, which one do I want to start with? Okay, I'll start with this one.

I was... dating this guy very casually and we were kind of like fuck buddies, but he was also a really good friend of mine.

Like he was a good dude.

He probably is a good dude still.

And we, he was really into more of the kinky stuff, which was fun.

Um, I think that's why we had a really fun sex life.

And we also were always joking around just as friends.

So it was just super lighthearted.

And he would bring up something new he wanted to do whenever we hung out.

And I was always down for it because it was honestly fun.

And it was usually stuff I've never done.

So one thing he wanted me to do one night was to dominate him.

And I wasn't used to doing this.

This is the first time he asked me to go in dominatrix mode, like full dominatrix mode.

I didn't exactly know what that meant or what to do, but I had a good idea and I knew I could play the role.

I did acting all through high school.

So when it comes to playing roles, I am there.

I am for it.

Sign me up.

So I was like, all right, I got you.

So I'm full out in this dominatrix role and I'm telling him to do shit.

Right.