May 29, 2026 · 43 min · 17 segments
This week on Wahala Confessions, we’re reacting to anonymous confessions about cheating, situationships, toxic relationships, emotional attachment, friendship betrayal, and dating in today’s world…
So someone said, "I found out my boyfriend has been cheating on me for two years.
I stayed.
Now I don't even feel anything when he lies.
Is it normal or am I just stupid at this point?"
Should I tell you what it is, yeah?
Oh.
Yeah.
It's attachment.
It is.
It's actually attachment.
Mm.
Because when someone cheats on you, like no matter what, you're gonna have a feeling of indifference.
Mm-hmm.
A feeling of like, "Mm, I can't, I can't deal with you anymore." Like, "You played with my loyalty."
Yeah.
Especially if your loyalty is so strong and you know, cool, I'll do like whatever for this...
Not whatever-
Mm-hmm
...
but like, this person has my loyalty.
The second they mess it up, out of sight, out of mind.
Okay.
But then again, yeah, some people, like I don't blame them because naturally when you love someone, like you love someone, you can't immediately just stop loving someone, you know?
Yeah.
So, I don't know.
So someone said, "I found out my boyfriend has been cheating on me for two years.
I stayed.
Now I don't even feel anything when he lies.
Is it normal or am I just stupid at this point?"
Should I tell you what it is, yeah?
Oh.
Yeah.
It's attachment.
It is.
It's actually attachment.
Mm.
Because when someone cheats on you, like no matter what, you're gonna have a feeling of indifference.
Mm-hmm.
A feeling of like, "Mm, I can't, I can't deal with you anymore." Like, "You played with my loyalty."
Yeah.
Especially if your loyalty is so strong and you know, cool, I'll do like whatever for this...
Not whatever-
Mm-hmm
...
but like, this person has my loyalty.
The second they mess it up, out of sight, out of mind.
Okay.
But then again, yeah, some people, like I don't blame them because naturally when you love someone, like you love someone, you can't immediately just stop loving someone, you know?
Yeah.
So, I don't know.
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