Is romantic love still worth pursuing in a world where we no longer need it to live meaningful lives?
In this episode, psychologists Dr. Holly and Dr. Alison Batchelder explore the science of modern love, changing expectations of marriage, and whether we're asking too much from romantic relationships.
We discuss attachment, emotional safety, high standards versus unrealistic expectations, vulnerability, and the difference between settling and accepting imperfection.
Ultimately, is romantic love worth the risk, and how do our personal values shape that answer?
**Research & Theories**
- **Finkel et al. (2015):** Suffocation model of marriage
- **Sternberg (1986):** Triangular theory of love
- **Robles et al. (2014):** Marital quality and physical health
- **Deci & Ryan (2000):** Self-determination theory: autonomy, competence, and relatedness
**Dr. Alison Batchelder**
https://www.alisonbatchelderphd.com/
**Dr. Holly Batchelder**
https://www.youtube.com/@dr.hollybatchelder
https://www.hollyphd.com/
**Disclaimer:** This podcast provides general information and discusses mental health and related subjects. The content is not intended to substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always seek guidance from a qualified healthcare professional regarding medical concerns.
