OK, so if you have followed our story, you know that when we first connected on the dating app in January 2023, we lived in different places.
And that house has been sitting sort of semi-vacant, sporadically occupied by us when we're in Los Angeles, and friends when they choose to visit it and so forth.
But it's interesting because in the early going, That house became a little bit of a bone of contention in terms of your feelings about the scale of our commitment to one another.
And this is probably from some previous scarring, as it were, is that as long as I feel like we actually have two separate places to go to, so you have a house in Los Angeles with all your stuff in it.
And you had your apartment in L.A. And so to me, it always felt like as long as we can have an argument and one of us can go, that's it.
Now, it's interesting because, you know, I think I would like to think that over the three and a half years we've learned to communicate better, particularly on this specific topic, because there was a stark dichotomy in the way we viewed the scale of our commitment early on.
OK, so if you have followed our story, you know that when we first connected on the dating app in January 2023, we lived in different places.
And that house has been sitting sort of semi-vacant, sporadically occupied by us when we're in Los Angeles, and friends when they choose to visit it and so forth.
But it's interesting because in the early going, That house became a little bit of a bone of contention in terms of your feelings about the scale of our commitment to one another.
And this is probably from some previous scarring, as it were, is that as long as I feel like we actually have two separate places to go to, so you have a house in Los Angeles with all your stuff in it.
And you had your apartment in L.A. And so to me, it always felt like as long as we can have an argument and one of us can go, that's it.
Now, it's interesting because, you know, I think I would like to think that over the three and a half years we've learned to communicate better, particularly on this specific topic, because there was a stark dichotomy in the way we viewed the scale of our commitment early on.
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