Sep 18, 2026 · 1 hr 11 min · 11 segments
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yeah well i when i started then you know getting you know into job you know and then your dad we have to go to uni and then do his little 20 hours which is not enough you know to feed us you know to pay the rent and then still be able to send money you know to people back home and then you know me being you know the first one I have to I've got responsibility you know to support my siblings you know back home and um so well i happened there is that in terms of uh getting a nine you know childminder in england you know the area where we live you know it's not so you know easy and it's very very expensive very very expensive but then people then i saw a lady that um um she's a um hairdresser, and she told me that her child is in Brighton.
Then it was only to be
with
me that the name of the child is, if I remember, it's Michael or something like that.
And I said, it would be nice if my Michael, so she spoke highly about this A childminder.
A childminder.
And then said it would be nice if at least Michael can get somebody else, you know, as well, you know.
How old was Michael? Was he old? I think Michael must be about two years old.
And how old was Toby at the
time?
Toby was about 18 months going to a year.
And then they were charging, you know, like £20 per week.
£20 a week for childcare? Lord.
Yeah.
For childcare.
And...
They might have to bring that back.
You can't get that in, in, within London, you know? So, and, so we spoke to the woman and then she, she said, okay, and I took to be the, you know, there.
And then she was really, you know, she was very, very nice, you know, so she look after, you know, so, but the only thing is they don't, understand how to look after, you know, black skin.
Yeah, so because I remember when I go there and they don't want to bring Toby back home, you know, for maybe the weekend or something like that, I have to be you know, um...
Showering.
Yeah.
Look at him.
Because he will look like, you know, you just brought him from the village, you know, because all the skin is so...
Scaly.
yeah well i when i started then you know getting you know into job you know and then your dad we have to go to uni and then do his little 20 hours which is not enough you know to feed us you know to pay the rent and then still be able to send money you know to people back home and then you know me being you know the first one I have to I've got responsibility you know to support my siblings you know back home and um so well i happened there is that in terms of uh getting a nine you know childminder in england you know the area where we live you know it's not so you know easy and it's very very expensive very very expensive but then people then i saw a lady that um um she's a um hairdresser, and she told me that her child is in Brighton.
Then it was only to be
with
me that the name of the child is, if I remember, it's Michael or something like that.
And I said, it would be nice if my Michael, so she spoke highly about this A childminder.
A childminder.
And then said it would be nice if at least Michael can get somebody else, you know, as well, you know.
How old was Michael? Was he old? I think Michael must be about two years old.
And how old was Toby at the
time?
Toby was about 18 months going to a year.
And then they were charging, you know, like £20 per week.
£20 a week for childcare? Lord.
Yeah.
For childcare.
And...
They might have to bring that back.
You can't get that in, in, within London, you know? So, and, so we spoke to the woman and then she, she said, okay, and I took to be the, you know, there.
And then she was really, you know, she was very, very nice, you know, so she look after, you know, so, but the only thing is they don't, understand how to look after, you know, black skin.
Yeah, so because I remember when I go there and they don't want to bring Toby back home, you know, for maybe the weekend or something like that, I have to be you know, um...
Showering.
Yeah.
Look at him.
Because he will look like, you know, you just brought him from the village, you know, because all the skin is so...
Scaly.
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