Oct 2, 2026 · 28 min · 10 segments
*1987* *Morning, Jane.* *If you’re reading this, that means I’ve already left for work. I know you tend to be fairly disoriented first thing in the morning. The last thing I want to do is scare…
Ah!
Morning, Jane.
If you're reading this, that means I've already left for work.
I ought to be back home around six.
I try my best not to wake you so you can have some time for yourself.
I know you tend to be fairly disoriented first thing in the morning.
The last thing I want to do is scare you.
It was a hard adjustment for me at first.
But I know it's been harder for you.
Take a look at the picture on the nightstand.
That's you and me.
It was taken at our wedding, October 16th, 1985.
It's only been two years since.
It feels like some other lifetime.
I had a copy of it made.
I keep one on my desk at work.
I feel kind of ridiculous saying that I need the reminder of how things used to be.
I know it's not the same for me as it is for you, but in some ways I...
Dr. Ellis says that the routines are important in cases like yours.
Between him, me, and you, of course.
It took the three of us some time to find the right routine to help you.
But I think we have it figured out by now.
Obviously, every day might be a little different, but try to stick to the steps, if you can.
Dr. Ellis says that the hope is that the repetition can strengthen your memory over time.
I've left some more notes for you around the house to help you keep track, and there should be labels on everything you need.
Ah!
Morning, Jane.
If you're reading this, that means I've already left for work.
I ought to be back home around six.
I try my best not to wake you so you can have some time for yourself.
I know you tend to be fairly disoriented first thing in the morning.
The last thing I want to do is scare you.
It was a hard adjustment for me at first.
But I know it's been harder for you.
Take a look at the picture on the nightstand.
That's you and me.
It was taken at our wedding, October 16th, 1985.
It's only been two years since.
It feels like some other lifetime.
I had a copy of it made.
I keep one on my desk at work.
I feel kind of ridiculous saying that I need the reminder of how things used to be.
I know it's not the same for me as it is for you, but in some ways I...
Dr. Ellis says that the routines are important in cases like yours.
Between him, me, and you, of course.
It took the three of us some time to find the right routine to help you.
But I think we have it figured out by now.
Obviously, every day might be a little different, but try to stick to the steps, if you can.
Dr. Ellis says that the hope is that the repetition can strengthen your memory over time.
I've left some more notes for you around the house to help you keep track, and there should be labels on everything you need.
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