Jun 29, 2026 · 1 hr 4 min · 9 segments
In this catch-up episode, we're sharing what has been unfolding behind the scenes over the past few weeks—from major shifts in sleep and parenting, to navigating resentment, asking for support, and…
I'm burnt out putting her to sleep, holding it all night, never turning off, and then waking up in the morning and holding it in the morning.
I just feel like I can't do it anymore.
I'm burnt out.
And so he had told me he was going to get involved.
Then we went up to the mother tree and he hadn't been involved.
And I was like, are you going to get involved? And he's like, oh, I thought you meant I was going to get involved once we started really sleep training her, started not tickling her, cuddling with her anymore.
I was like, no, no, no, I'm burnt out.
You know, it's when you're burnt out with work, you take the weekend off or you cut your day shorter or you cancel a call.
Like, I'm burnt out and I just have to keep doing it.
And I can't.
I need you.
I need you to help.
Held it down for a few more days.
That was Sunday.
And then we came to the conclusion that he was going to take Fridays and Saturday nights and I was going to sleep in my bed, our bed, Ryan and I's bed.
by myself and he would either go back and forth or he would just sleep with her and I was like oh my god I can make it till Friday I can make it till Friday and then Thursday came and she skipped a nap He goes to jits for four hours.
So I just like hold it down by myself at night.
And then I was literally weeping, rocking her to sleep.
And she's just like touching my mole, touching my mole.
Like she's crying because she wants to go to sleep.
She was just like so exhausted and she's frustrated.
Okay, I re-listened to our second episode and how you were saying that point that Theo reached in your breastfeeding journey where he was conflicted.
Ray is there asleep with needing me to go to sleep.
She doesn't want to need me to.
I mean, she loves me when it's great, but then like when she wants to roll over and just fall asleep, but she needs all this contact.
I'm burnt out putting her to sleep, holding it all night, never turning off, and then waking up in the morning and holding it in the morning.
I just feel like I can't do it anymore.
I'm burnt out.
And so he had told me he was going to get involved.
Then we went up to the mother tree and he hadn't been involved.
And I was like, are you going to get involved? And he's like, oh, I thought you meant I was going to get involved once we started really sleep training her, started not tickling her, cuddling with her anymore.
I was like, no, no, no, I'm burnt out.
You know, it's when you're burnt out with work, you take the weekend off or you cut your day shorter or you cancel a call.
Like, I'm burnt out and I just have to keep doing it.
And I can't.
I need you.
I need you to help.
Held it down for a few more days.
That was Sunday.
And then we came to the conclusion that he was going to take Fridays and Saturday nights and I was going to sleep in my bed, our bed, Ryan and I's bed.
by myself and he would either go back and forth or he would just sleep with her and I was like oh my god I can make it till Friday I can make it till Friday and then Thursday came and she skipped a nap He goes to jits for four hours.
So I just like hold it down by myself at night.
And then I was literally weeping, rocking her to sleep.
And she's just like touching my mole, touching my mole.
Like she's crying because she wants to go to sleep.
She was just like so exhausted and she's frustrated.
Okay, I re-listened to our second episode and how you were saying that point that Theo reached in your breastfeeding journey where he was conflicted.
Ray is there asleep with needing me to go to sleep.
She doesn't want to need me to.
I mean, she loves me when it's great, but then like when she wants to roll over and just fall asleep, but she needs all this contact.
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