Jul 27, 2026 · 9 min · 7 segments
Most people who try to change their life fail — not because they lack motivation or desire, but because they're making the same mistakes over and over without realizing it. In this episode we break…
One of the biggest mistakes that people make when trying to change their life is taking the outside-in approach to change.
And what I mean by that is people look around for external reasons or external cues to change their life, mainly around material achievements, societal ideas of success.
And they adopt these goals that aren't necessarily aligned with any sort of deeper purpose so the opposite of that is to take the inside out approach to change which is you tune into what you're feeling in your spirit you know it's like those mission impossible movies where they play the mission and you can choose to accept it or not so you can choose to accept the mission for that particular moment or not but what you typically find is that when you do choose that internal intuition centric spiritual centric mission it may not be easy it may not be quick but it usually ends up being more fulfilling than if you choose a mission based on what you can get as a result of it making a certain amount of money or getting a certain type of recognition or achievement those kinds of missions usually leave us feeling emptier and more confused than the spiritual centric missions.
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One of the biggest mistakes that people make when trying to change their life is taking the outside-in approach to change.
And what I mean by that is people look around for external reasons or external cues to change their life, mainly around material achievements, societal ideas of success.
And they adopt these goals that aren't necessarily aligned with any sort of deeper purpose so the opposite of that is to take the inside out approach to change which is you tune into what you're feeling in your spirit you know it's like those mission impossible movies where they play the mission and you can choose to accept it or not so you can choose to accept the mission for that particular moment or not but what you typically find is that when you do choose that internal intuition centric spiritual centric mission it may not be easy it may not be quick but it usually ends up being more fulfilling than if you choose a mission based on what you can get as a result of it making a certain amount of money or getting a certain type of recognition or achievement those kinds of missions usually leave us feeling emptier and more confused than the spiritual centric missions.