Chidera EggerueHost
I think for a long time we've tried to point at different reasons as to why it could be that men are so incompetent and useless and selfish when the answer was staring at us all this time.

So if you're a woman who dates men, then you have obviously come across the male ego.

And you know what makes it so ridiculous, right? You don't even have to be someone who dates men to have encountered the male ego.

Because the male ego isn't only experienced when you're in relationships with them.

The male ego, I mean, even if you're in the workplace with a man, how the male ego can show up is them over-promising and under-delivering.

Other ways the male ego can show up is them putting themselves forward for a job they know they're not qualified for, but they're doing so with so much confidence and arrogance that you end up believing them.

And that's how they get the job, basically just blagging their way through life.

Other ways the male ego shows up is in the ways that they overestimate their abilities to pull certain women.

And they are audacious and daring enough to actually make a move towards that woman.

And you know what's so crazy? You know what's so crazy? More than half the time, the woman actually does give in to the man's advances anyway.

What's interesting about the male ego is that it has been largely inflated and encouraged by women, both knowingly and unknowingly.

I came across this tweet the other day and I thought it gave great context to And a brilliant additional layer to this conversation we're having about the male ego.

Seek Cindy said, if you get with someone and you are socially considered out of their league, they will sooner or later make sure that this evens out.

And they will have energetically and psychologically created an even playing field.

I think for a long time we've tried to point at different reasons as to why it could be that men are so incompetent and useless and selfish when the answer was staring at us all this time.

So if you're a woman who dates men, then you have obviously come across the male ego.

And you know what makes it so ridiculous, right? You don't even have to be someone who dates men to have encountered the male ego.

Because the male ego isn't only experienced when you're in relationships with them.

The male ego, I mean, even if you're in the workplace with a man, how the male ego can show up is them over-promising and under-delivering.

Other ways the male ego can show up is them putting themselves forward for a job they know they're not qualified for, but they're doing so with so much confidence and arrogance that you end up believing them.

And that's how they get the job, basically just blagging their way through life.

Other ways the male ego shows up is in the ways that they overestimate their abilities to pull certain women.

And they are audacious and daring enough to actually make a move towards that woman.

And you know what's so crazy? You know what's so crazy? More than half the time, the woman actually does give in to the man's advances anyway.

What's interesting about the male ego is that it has been largely inflated and encouraged by women, both knowingly and unknowingly.

I came across this tweet the other day and I thought it gave great context to And a brilliant additional layer to this conversation we're having about the male ego.

Seek Cindy said, if you get with someone and you are socially considered out of their league, they will sooner or later make sure that this evens out.

And they will have energetically and psychologically created an even playing field.
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