Negging

Like, be kind of, like, playfully mean." And-

Negging.

Negging.

Yes.

Oh, no. [laughs]

But what I'm trying to say in him punching down is he will start to neg you.

Negging, you've heard me talk about negging before on this podcast if you've been listening for a while, but I'll explain it again.

Negging is when men make passive, benign, often slipping under the radar type of comments to nudge and poke at your self-esteem.

So negging can be little things like if you're a violin player, he might be like, "Mm, you're an okay violin player.

You know, I've, I've, I've heard better." So in him doing that, he's trying to bring you down a little bit because he's overcompensating.

Like I said, you'll notice he does all the typical pickup artist techniques.

Negging, light touching or kino as they often call it, invading women or in these cases, girls' personal space.

And while most of Jack's videos play picking up women in a way as being just a joke for content, it still tells us a lot about what he thinks of women And to this day, he uses these videos as an example of what a good pickup artist he is, how successful he is with women.

So even though he's kind of acting like he's playing it for jokes, he's also like, no, look, I'm really serious.

Yeah, I think my job here is to...

What is it? Negging? Anyways.

His wife died.

Nivea died.

nagging what's the difference

Negging is when you are like flirting with someone and it's like a really toxic, like quote unquote technique that like really bad men have put into books about just like, I'm going to insult you slightly to make you crave my intention.

That's negging.

So when you said negging, I was like, I've been doing what? I