Nov 2, 2026 · 27 min · 11 segments
Are you paying attention to the patterns in your relationships, or do you lack awareness when it comes to choosing the right guy for you? In this episode of the podcast, I get real about the…
Chrystal Evans HurstHostOK, let's talk about how in your life it's time to grow up, girl, because it's time for you to stop chasing and choosing the same man in a different body.
And until you heal what you are chasing that's familiar, you'll mistake it for what's right because it feels good.
when you are willing to have an honest conversation about the fact that you see a pattern.
Because if you ever look back over your life and realize this guy may have had a different face, there may be a different name, maybe in a different city, but it's the same relationship.
And you run into the same disappointment because at some point you're going to have to stop running the same play and start asking, why does this keep happening to me? But instead of lamenting at the end of that question, because that's what we do.
We'll get to the end of why is this happening to me? Then we just feel sorry for ourselves.
But once you ask that question, leading to the next question is what keeps feeling normal to me that I keep starting the same path, which is why I keep ending in the same place.
OK, let's talk about how in your life it's time to grow up, girl, because it's time for you to stop chasing and choosing the same man in a different body.
And until you heal what you are chasing that's familiar, you'll mistake it for what's right because it feels good.
when you are willing to have an honest conversation about the fact that you see a pattern.
Because if you ever look back over your life and realize this guy may have had a different face, there may be a different name, maybe in a different city, but it's the same relationship.
And you run into the same disappointment because at some point you're going to have to stop running the same play and start asking, why does this keep happening to me? But instead of lamenting at the end of that question, because that's what we do.
We'll get to the end of why is this happening to me? Then we just feel sorry for ourselves.
But once you ask that question, leading to the next question is what keeps feeling normal to me that I keep starting the same path, which is why I keep ending in the same place.
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