So first of all, too, like, what is cuckolding? Like, let's talk about that.
Let's talk about, you know, what that even is because I'm sure a lot of listeners are like, "What does that even mean?" [laughs]
So what does that look like?
So, um, so cuckolding is, is basically, um, you know, when it's, it's typically, um, um, the wife or the partner goes out with other men, um, besides the husband, and has dates, um, sexual relations, um, even sometimes, you know, like a little mini boyfriend, um, that...
And the husband enjoys the hell out of it and finds it erotic, finds it, um, pleasurable.
Mm-hmm
... which is basically this, um, you know, uh, as my, my husband says, um, this blend of emotions that you're going through all at once that include the jealousy, the angst, the anxio- anxious, um, feelings, but also at the same time, it just, it's a complete turn-on.
Excitement?
Mm-hmm.
It's, it's exciting, you know? And you know, it's, a lot of times it's tied to compersion, you know, which is, um, genuinely enjoying seeing your partner get pleasure.
Mm-hmm.
And compersion is something that, um, I heard of a while-
... back, but I have struggled with thinking that it was just something you either have or you don't.
And then someone finally explained to me recently that it's more of a muscle.
It's something that, you know, you can develop and continue to develop over time, which is something that we should all work on.
It's like, you know, you hear people complain about their husband going golfing, but it's like that truly brings him joy and happiness, you know? The same for this.
So first of all, too, like, what is cuckolding? Like, let's talk about that.
Let's talk about, you know, what that even is because I'm sure a lot of listeners are like, "What does that even mean?" [laughs]
So what does that look like?
So, um, so cuckolding is, is basically, um, you know, when it's, it's typically, um, um, the wife or the partner goes out with other men, um, besides the husband, and has dates, um, sexual relations, um, even sometimes, you know, like a little mini boyfriend, um, that...
And the husband enjoys the hell out of it and finds it erotic, finds it, um, pleasurable.
Mm-hmm
... which is basically this, um, you know, uh, as my, my husband says, um, this blend of emotions that you're going through all at once that include the jealousy, the angst, the anxio- anxious, um, feelings, but also at the same time, it just, it's a complete turn-on.
Excitement?
Mm-hmm.
It's, it's exciting, you know? And you know, it's, a lot of times it's tied to compersion, you know, which is, um, genuinely enjoying seeing your partner get pleasure.
Mm-hmm.
And compersion is something that, um, I heard of a while-
... back, but I have struggled with thinking that it was just something you either have or you don't.
And then someone finally explained to me recently that it's more of a muscle.
It's something that, you know, you can develop and continue to develop over time, which is something that we should all work on.
It's like, you know, you hear people complain about their husband going golfing, but it's like that truly brings him joy and happiness, you know? The same for this.
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