so now you've gotten to the point where you've decided to meet up with someone how does the evening go does your husband go with you does he stay at home um how has that progressed as you guys have been in this together

So, you know, at the very beginning, he was always very heavily involved.

And, you know, he would go with me and we'd meet for drinks and, you know, go that way.

But it didn't take long before we kind of both saw the awkwardness that is the third wheel.

And so we decided, we both decided that, you know, maybe it would be good if I just went on my own.

And he discovered immediately that he really liked that.

He liked the anticipation.

Like I was like, OK, is this going to be like one of those things where you Google it and then you're sorry you did? Or is it going to be like a good surprise? So tell us about the significance of the cage and the conversation surrounding having your cuck caged or not caged.

Mm-hmm.

Or, you know, we had you like on FaceTime and you were watching.

And then it evolved to, um, you know, I'm gonna go out and meet a bull at his house or a hotel or something and then I come back and tell him about it.

So the, the evening has definitely m- you know, morphed over time, um, and we've kinda gone through all these different stages.

Um, I, I went out actually the other night and, you know, he sits in the bathroom, you know, um, while I'm taking my bath.

Um, this is, you know, so now, now this is our typical night.

Um, he will sit there while I'm, you know, shaving and getting ready and relaxing in the bath.

Right