The Sexy Lifestyle with Carol and David
Aug 14, 2026 · 59 min · 16 segments
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said to you, Rebecca and Jess, right? Yes, I did hear that.
And then they said, no other dicks, more pussy.
That was me.
I said no
dicks.
So I was just going to say that it's a little different when you're going on vacation because there's the lead up to, well, there's also a lead up to going to a club, but there's a longer lead up to going on a vacation like this.
So you have a lot more opportunities to talk and think and fantasize about what's going to happen while you're on your vacation.
And at the same time, there's a lot more time while you're here to meet the couples that you might want to play with and get to know them a little bit better before you actually have to jump into a situation with them.
Whereas when you go to a club, you really only have that evening to meet and then decide are we going to make it or not.
But here's a good question.
How would you define what is your sexual lifestyle? So I think, Jess, you talked a little bit about kink and BDSM is what you like to do.
Is that what you would say would be your main sexual lifestyle? That's what you're looking for?
Yeah, we...
So Paul's my master and I have tattooed master's toys.
So I love being owned.
But then in the relationship, you know... um, he reminded me that, you know, if, if you didn't sub, um, submit, submit, then he's like, clearly you're in charge because you need to submit.
Right.
Right.
Absolutely.
People don't always understand that, but you're almost more in charge when you're the sub versus the dom because you decide what you're going to do and, um, and how you're going to act.
And then he controls you after that.
Yeah.
Yes, exactly.
That's very interesting.
And you find that is something that you do just on a special occasion? Or is that something how you live your life daily?
said to you, Rebecca and Jess, right? Yes, I did hear that.
And then they said, no other dicks, more pussy.
That was me.
I said no
dicks.
So I was just going to say that it's a little different when you're going on vacation because there's the lead up to, well, there's also a lead up to going to a club, but there's a longer lead up to going on a vacation like this.
So you have a lot more opportunities to talk and think and fantasize about what's going to happen while you're on your vacation.
And at the same time, there's a lot more time while you're here to meet the couples that you might want to play with and get to know them a little bit better before you actually have to jump into a situation with them.
Whereas when you go to a club, you really only have that evening to meet and then decide are we going to make it or not.
But here's a good question.
How would you define what is your sexual lifestyle? So I think, Jess, you talked a little bit about kink and BDSM is what you like to do.
Is that what you would say would be your main sexual lifestyle? That's what you're looking for?
Yeah, we...
So Paul's my master and I have tattooed master's toys.
So I love being owned.
But then in the relationship, you know... um, he reminded me that, you know, if, if you didn't sub, um, submit, submit, then he's like, clearly you're in charge because you need to submit.
Right.
Right.
Absolutely.
People don't always understand that, but you're almost more in charge when you're the sub versus the dom because you decide what you're going to do and, um, and how you're going to act.
And then he controls you after that.
Yeah.
Yes, exactly.
That's very interesting.
And you find that is something that you do just on a special occasion? Or is that something how you live your life daily?
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