The Sensual Sisterhood Podcast
Sep 22, 2026 · 44 min · 10 segments
Women hurt you. You were judged, betrayed, excluded, talked about, or made to feel like you were too much. So you learned to keep other women at arm's length. The hurt was real. But the lesson was…
Barbara KatsnelsonHost
Marta KaganHostI mean,

You're actually part of the first cohort of true sisters I feel like I've had, you know? I mean, lots of girlfriends.

Like, my girlfriends are awesome, but we're talking about something a little bit different here.


Like I I'm better hanging with the boys or that she's outgrown needing close friendships at all.
When I hear that a woman says, like, I've outgrown other women, sometimes I think it's just a really pretty evolved way to say women have hurt me deeply.
And I have decided that I will never put myself in a position to be hurt like that again.
If you've been betrayed by women, rejected by them, competed with, humiliated, and abandoned, of course some part of you has learned, don't go back there.
It's like I am one of those women who's been hurt by women on the deepest level by my mother.
I mean,

You're actually part of the first cohort of true sisters I feel like I've had, you know? I mean, lots of girlfriends.

Like, my girlfriends are awesome, but we're talking about something a little bit different here.


Like I I'm better hanging with the boys or that she's outgrown needing close friendships at all.
When I hear that a woman says, like, I've outgrown other women, sometimes I think it's just a really pretty evolved way to say women have hurt me deeply.
And I have decided that I will never put myself in a position to be hurt like that again.
If you've been betrayed by women, rejected by them, competed with, humiliated, and abandoned, of course some part of you has learned, don't go back there.
It's like I am one of those women who's been hurt by women on the deepest level by my mother.
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