Why Men Pull Away After Getting Close (The Summer of George #13)

Okay, so as you guys know, I met him on Hinge, and we had been very consistently seeing each other since the first time we went out.

I very much let him lead the relationship, meaning he was the one asking me out after every date.

And I love that.

I mean, I personally love being in my feminine.

I want to be pursued.

And it feels good when you're interested.

It felt good when I was interested in a man who was clearly interested in me back.

It was also just nice in general to feel like we were both on the same page.

Like there was truly no confusion.

I said that a couple of weeks ago.

So anyway, a few days before I left, I invited him over for dinner.

We had so much fun.

I made a really great meal.

We were talking, laughing, just...

He was being super honest with me.

And the thing with him was that his actions backed up his words.

Like, I think we all know.

I mean, come on.

We've all been love bombed.

We've all known what that feels like.

But when the actions are backing up the words, and also he was not love bombing me.

And that was one thing that I really, really liked.

I liked that he wasn't waking up in the morning and texting me like, morning sexy or hey, good night, hot stuff.

I don't need that shit.

It was just always intentional.

Okay, so as you guys know, I met him on Hinge, and we had been very consistently seeing each other since the first time we went out.

I very much let him lead the relationship, meaning he was the one asking me out after every date.

And I love that.

I mean, I personally love being in my feminine.

I want to be pursued.

And it feels good when you're interested.

It felt good when I was interested in a man who was clearly interested in me back.

It was also just nice in general to feel like we were both on the same page.

Like there was truly no confusion.

I said that a couple of weeks ago.

So anyway, a few days before I left, I invited him over for dinner.

We had so much fun.

I made a really great meal.

We were talking, laughing, just...

He was being super honest with me.

And the thing with him was that his actions backed up his words.

Like, I think we all know.

I mean, come on.

We've all been love bombed.

We've all known what that feels like.

But when the actions are backing up the words, and also he was not love bombing me.

And that was one thing that I really, really liked.

I liked that he wasn't waking up in the morning and texting me like, morning sexy or hey, good night, hot stuff.

I don't need that shit.

It was just always intentional.