The Positive Births NZ podcast
Jul 6, 2026 · 54 min · 14 segments
Ellen’s inspiring homebirth to second baby Rowan include thewords “rest”, “underwhelming”, “slumber party vibes”. Ellen has previously shared her first birth to Nuala on an earlier episode on the…
It was getting intense, but I'd never felt overwhelmed.
I think, and like thinking back, I think I did go through transition, but it was like this very brief moment of going, I don't think I can do this.
Yeah, I was breathing.
I was doing the wave breath through every contraction, but then when it would stop, I'd do the relaxed one and I could just gather myself again.
I felt this pushing and I was like, whoa, something's coming out of me, but it's not a head.
And it was, the sack was coming out and bulging and it didn't pop.
So I had this big ball sack hanging out between my legs, like a big handful.
I was on my like knees with my elbows up on the couch and I was getting really big risks in between each contraction.
And it was just, I was actually quite like, I was able to relax.
And it was like a little bit of hard work, then a lot of risks.
Oh my gosh, we did it.
You know, like I did it.
And we're at home and I got this beautiful home birth.
It just felt like a slumber party vibes, you know, like the coziest, most lovely vibes ever.
When I called up with the student midwife, she said to me that, I was one of the calmest mums that she's been around in labour.
And I was like, oh, that's really cool.
And it's funny because like Pat, he was like, wow, that birth was a bit underwhelming compared to the first one.
Underwhelming, rest, slumber party vibes.
It was getting intense, but I'd never felt overwhelmed.
I think, and like thinking back, I think I did go through transition, but it was like this very brief moment of going, I don't think I can do this.
Yeah, I was breathing.
I was doing the wave breath through every contraction, but then when it would stop, I'd do the relaxed one and I could just gather myself again.
I felt this pushing and I was like, whoa, something's coming out of me, but it's not a head.
And it was, the sack was coming out and bulging and it didn't pop.
So I had this big ball sack hanging out between my legs, like a big handful.
I was on my like knees with my elbows up on the couch and I was getting really big risks in between each contraction.
And it was just, I was actually quite like, I was able to relax.
And it was like a little bit of hard work, then a lot of risks.
Oh my gosh, we did it.
You know, like I did it.
And we're at home and I got this beautiful home birth.
It just felt like a slumber party vibes, you know, like the coziest, most lovely vibes ever.
When I called up with the student midwife, she said to me that, I was one of the calmest mums that she's been around in labour.
And I was like, oh, that's really cool.
And it's funny because like Pat, he was like, wow, that birth was a bit underwhelming compared to the first one.
Underwhelming, rest, slumber party vibes.
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