Oct 15, 2026 · 18 min · 7 segments
In this episode of Blackline Field Notes, we’re kicking off a five-part series called Leadership Understands the Difference.Over the years, I’ve learned that sometimes the difference between two words…
Josh MellottHost
As leaders, we have to be willing to look at things even if we don't wanna see them, even if they make us uncomfortable.

They can be, but they aren't always the same, and I think that's one of the things that can get confusing.

Let's say that you're a foreman and you're working on a project and you're managing a team of people, and you're responsible for managing that team.

You give them a task to do, and you send them off to do the work, but they don't do it.

Well, the question is, whose fault is that? I think if you ask most guys on the job site, and girls, whoever, whoever might be in charge, those people in that blue-collar way, that mindset, many of them would just say it's their fault.

'Cause when we're confronted with things and they're not done wrong, or they're not done correctly, they're not done right, um, I have just noticed in the blue-collar world, in the trades world, people are quick to take responsibility.

I mean, after all, if you're the foreman, then you're responsible for the crew, right? But here's the question: Is it really your fault? I want you to look at it a little bit differently.

You've given them what they need to do the job, you've explained the work that needs to be done, and they understand what's expected of them.

Now, assuming that you've done what you're supposed to do as the leader, hear me when I say this, is that your fault? No, it's not.

I'm gonna say it again, because if you're listening and you're that guy, it's not your fault.

Just because something isn't your fault doesn't mean that you're not the one that needs to make it right.

It doesn't mean that you can be like, "Well, that's not my fault." And the reality is, if you're a leader, you are gonna deal with things that aren't your fault.

As leaders, we have to be willing to look at things even if we don't wanna see them, even if they make us uncomfortable.

They can be, but they aren't always the same, and I think that's one of the things that can get confusing.

Let's say that you're a foreman and you're working on a project and you're managing a team of people, and you're responsible for managing that team.

You give them a task to do, and you send them off to do the work, but they don't do it.

Well, the question is, whose fault is that? I think if you ask most guys on the job site, and girls, whoever, whoever might be in charge, those people in that blue-collar way, that mindset, many of them would just say it's their fault.

'Cause when we're confronted with things and they're not done wrong, or they're not done correctly, they're not done right, um, I have just noticed in the blue-collar world, in the trades world, people are quick to take responsibility.

I mean, after all, if you're the foreman, then you're responsible for the crew, right? But here's the question: Is it really your fault? I want you to look at it a little bit differently.

You've given them what they need to do the job, you've explained the work that needs to be done, and they understand what's expected of them.

Now, assuming that you've done what you're supposed to do as the leader, hear me when I say this, is that your fault? No, it's not.

I'm gonna say it again, because if you're listening and you're that guy, it's not your fault.

Just because something isn't your fault doesn't mean that you're not the one that needs to make it right.

It doesn't mean that you can be like, "Well, that's not my fault." And the reality is, if you're a leader, you are gonna deal with things that aren't your fault.
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