The InFormed Parent with Suzanne Phillips
Oct 8, 2026 · 42 min · 11 segments
## Episode Summary Pornography is a conversation most parents would rather not have — but avoiding it does not protect our children. In this episode, Suzanne sits down with author and speaker Greta…
Suzanne PhillipsHost
What a story a- and just what a great God, right? That you are, that you are here together, able to testify, but also to share.

I just wanna go back a little bit because while I want to focus on the parenting piece of this, I know that there are people that are listening just because how, of how pervasive issues with pornography are, and, and there, there are people that are hearing right now maybe through the lens of marriage.

And so when you say, you know, you just didn't really even have a framework and he didn't really have a framework, so, so when he told you, you had no, zero idea that he was even viewing, much less that it had escalated.
And like I said, raised in a Christian home, um, you know, entered into mar- Aaron was my first boyfriend, the first, the only man I have ever loved.
So he didn't fit the framework of what I thought was a person who used pornography.
I had no idea that, that good men who, like I said, love God, love their families, could fall into this trap.
So, so I didn't have any sort of radar up to think, "Oh, this is what is happening in his life." Um, I knew something was wrong because his actions and, and the way he was living with struggling with depression, anxiety-
... um, self-hatred, stress, um, there was something wrong, but I never would've pinpointed that, never would've guessed it.
And so, um, I think that that is a big part of why we need to have these conversations with our kids because imagine if I had the tools to recognize these problem signs and to say, "Oh, I need to ask about this." But I didn't know.
And so I wanna teach my kids and everybody else's kids to know these are, are symptoms of a big problem, but it doesn't have to be the end of the story, right? And that's the thing-
... where it's so easy for us to, as parents or as spouses, watching our, you know, partner struggle with this or seeing this happen to our kids where we, we just give up and we think it's over.

What a story a- and just what a great God, right? That you are, that you are here together, able to testify, but also to share.

I just wanna go back a little bit because while I want to focus on the parenting piece of this, I know that there are people that are listening just because how, of how pervasive issues with pornography are, and, and there, there are people that are hearing right now maybe through the lens of marriage.

And so when you say, you know, you just didn't really even have a framework and he didn't really have a framework, so, so when he told you, you had no, zero idea that he was even viewing, much less that it had escalated.
And like I said, raised in a Christian home, um, you know, entered into mar- Aaron was my first boyfriend, the first, the only man I have ever loved.
So he didn't fit the framework of what I thought was a person who used pornography.
I had no idea that, that good men who, like I said, love God, love their families, could fall into this trap.
So, so I didn't have any sort of radar up to think, "Oh, this is what is happening in his life." Um, I knew something was wrong because his actions and, and the way he was living with struggling with depression, anxiety-
... um, self-hatred, stress, um, there was something wrong, but I never would've pinpointed that, never would've guessed it.
And so, um, I think that that is a big part of why we need to have these conversations with our kids because imagine if I had the tools to recognize these problem signs and to say, "Oh, I need to ask about this." But I didn't know.
And so I wanna teach my kids and everybody else's kids to know these are, are symptoms of a big problem, but it doesn't have to be the end of the story, right? And that's the thing-
... where it's so easy for us to, as parents or as spouses, watching our, you know, partner struggle with this or seeing this happen to our kids where we, we just give up and we think it's over.
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