Jul 21, 2026 · 1 hr 6 min · 13 segments
In today's episode, I'm joined by Life, Love & Leadership Coach **Arneen Ahsan** for a conversation every ambitious & high achieving woman needs to hear. We're diving into attachment styles, feminine…
Arneen AhsanGuestPaige HarperHostUm, but diving right in, so I think a lot of women have been taught how to become successful, right? And I talk a lot about identity work and all of that, about becoming successful, but not necessarily, like, how to receive love, and, like, not talking a lot about love on that end of things.
Like, I feel like there's a lot of talk about success right now, but the, the love conversation is not as high, at least not that I'm seeing.

Ugh, I just, I mean, there are so many layers I think that can really go into this.

But I think people are as curious as ever right now about what is going on in dating and what is going on with modern love, and simultaneously exhausted [laughs] but they're single, right? And so we're seeing this, really this culture bubble up around adversity to even trying right now, which is fascinating because it's, it's coming from a place that a few years ago a lot of people would have said that is the culture of avoidance, and is coming from a lot of heartbreak, and it's coming from a people who maybe aren't ready.

And although all of those things are true, what we're actually seeing more and more of in the dating pool all around the world, by the way, I have data on this, so I can speak to this, is that people from all walks of life are actually finding it challenging.

And people who are really successful in ways are actually finding it even more challenging, which I think is really surprising for a lot of people.

But I think for people who are really wanting to find something real and lasting and healthy and thriving, those are the people who are looking for exceptional love.

And really exceptional relationships in a very strange, atypical time right now in the world of love, and also in the world, because there's a lot going on in the world that is obviously bringing up a lot for people.
Um, but diving right in, so I think a lot of women have been taught how to become successful, right? And I talk a lot about identity work and all of that, about becoming successful, but not necessarily, like, how to receive love, and, like, not talking a lot about love on that end of things.
Like, I feel like there's a lot of talk about success right now, but the, the love conversation is not as high, at least not that I'm seeing.

Ugh, I just, I mean, there are so many layers I think that can really go into this.

But I think people are as curious as ever right now about what is going on in dating and what is going on with modern love, and simultaneously exhausted [laughs] but they're single, right? And so we're seeing this, really this culture bubble up around adversity to even trying right now, which is fascinating because it's, it's coming from a place that a few years ago a lot of people would have said that is the culture of avoidance, and is coming from a lot of heartbreak, and it's coming from a people who maybe aren't ready.

And although all of those things are true, what we're actually seeing more and more of in the dating pool all around the world, by the way, I have data on this, so I can speak to this, is that people from all walks of life are actually finding it challenging.

And people who are really successful in ways are actually finding it even more challenging, which I think is really surprising for a lot of people.

But I think for people who are really wanting to find something real and lasting and healthy and thriving, those are the people who are looking for exceptional love.

And really exceptional relationships in a very strange, atypical time right now in the world of love, and also in the world, because there's a lot going on in the world that is obviously bringing up a lot for people.
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