Sep 3, 2026 · 2 hr 46 min · 24 segments
On this episode of The Honest Bunch Podcast, Nneka Isaac Moses and Isaac Moses, the iconic founders of \*\*Goge Africa\*\*, share the incredible journey behind one of Africa's most enduring marriages…
Nneka Isaac MosesGuest
Isaac MosesGuestNeduHost
Husband MaterialHostEzinneHostTounHost
This control, control and the Bible matter, you have brought it to the matter now.
Our forefathers and foremothers in the enjoy good marriage even before the bible came to thank
the thing is it's not about what any holy book said or not is is you because when you want to quote the bible you go to the chapter and the verse that favors what you want to drive that favors the narrative you want and then if you have a smart partner who also is into quoting the bible for rightness that person will go and quote the one that will favor them and then you end up going up down up down and actually get heading nowhere the the truth is for me it's from you what do you want i ask myself what do i want out of marriage i want peace of mind i want to be happy So that thing that you crave for is what you should learn to give first.
Yeah, as a matter of fact, you know, I became so used to her that even when some clients would come with a farm tour to the US, to different places, they just want one of us.
wow oh yeah she's not going to forget it a couple of times i can mention an airline that wanted something like that when they were opening their uh i think los angeles
routes so the thing is it's just one person that they're picking one person from different so we said we can it
won't be interesting one of our staff had to go and there's this feeling i get if i'm somewhere and she's not there.
How
If I say, come, let's go and you don't want to come, you know what you would miss.
So it's a kind of, the relationship for me, i kept it fun same way as we when we started
you know i mean if we have to go to club saying that this club is expensive or are you ready to burn 200k there are you sure it's worth it you know and we now let's go our friends are there let's go
and we just go the truth is that as you make your bed so you lie on it a lot of people want so much from somebody he has to do this for me he has to do after all i'm this what are you doing for him or what are you doing for her a lot of us we are too demanding you understand it's not fair on your partner if you're a guy oh she must do this she must do that she want you to count what are you doing it's a give and take game you know but most of us are selfish self-centered You want it for yourself, it's good for you.
This control, control and the Bible matter, you have brought it to the matter now.
Our forefathers and foremothers in the enjoy good marriage even before the bible came to thank
the thing is it's not about what any holy book said or not is is you because when you want to quote the bible you go to the chapter and the verse that favors what you want to drive that favors the narrative you want and then if you have a smart partner who also is into quoting the bible for rightness that person will go and quote the one that will favor them and then you end up going up down up down and actually get heading nowhere the the truth is for me it's from you what do you want i ask myself what do i want out of marriage i want peace of mind i want to be happy So that thing that you crave for is what you should learn to give first.
Yeah, as a matter of fact, you know, I became so used to her that even when some clients would come with a farm tour to the US, to different places, they just want one of us.
wow oh yeah she's not going to forget it a couple of times i can mention an airline that wanted something like that when they were opening their uh i think los angeles
routes so the thing is it's just one person that they're picking one person from different so we said we can it
won't be interesting one of our staff had to go and there's this feeling i get if i'm somewhere and she's not there.
How
If I say, come, let's go and you don't want to come, you know what you would miss.
So it's a kind of, the relationship for me, i kept it fun same way as we when we started
you know i mean if we have to go to club saying that this club is expensive or are you ready to burn 200k there are you sure it's worth it you know and we now let's go our friends are there let's go
and we just go the truth is that as you make your bed so you lie on it a lot of people want so much from somebody he has to do this for me he has to do after all i'm this what are you doing for him or what are you doing for her a lot of us we are too demanding you understand it's not fair on your partner if you're a guy oh she must do this she must do that she want you to count what are you doing it's a give and take game you know but most of us are selfish self-centered You want it for yourself, it's good for you.
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