Jul 24, 2026 · 2 hr 2 min · 11 segments
What if the biggest barrier to building a multimillion pound business isn't talent or strategy, but your willingness to go all in, hire the right people, and build a culture that makes people want to…
Paul AvinsHost
I saw a really interesting kind of video about talking about sort of like as entrepreneurs, we've got three or four sort of like gas stoves, you know, and you can have two of them turned up at any one time, but you can't have three.

And if you're building a business, the chances are you're probably either sacrificing your health or sacrificing your relationships.

And, you know, like out of the three, which two are you focused on right now? And I think that's quite a hard thing because, you know, you have to put enough effort in to build something in scale under 40.

You're in the top half of 1% of entrepreneurs period, right? To get out under 40 is a very rare thing.

And it's like, okay, but actually there's a price for doing that, which I think people don't appreciate or don't understand either because it's easy to go, it's all right for you.

Everything comes with, there's a price, right? And it's often health if it's in your 50s, but people get to the point they've sold and then spend hundreds of thousands trying to rebuild their health.
Well, look, I don't know the exact stat, but the amount of people who run businesses and go through divorce is connected.

If you haven't been divorced as an entrepreneur, either you're not probably trying hard enough or you're very, very lucky.

And I think... you know i've been forward i've coached lots of husband and wife teams and i actually think that's i think that's infinitely harder trying to run a business with your other half it's like i've done it and it's really really hard and it's yeah i mean i think that's that's a recipe for a relationship challenges and then some right
well let me just say this i met my wife on the very first day of university and we've been together for 20 years congratulations yeah thank you but I don't pretend it was easy because actually partly the reason it worked is because nine years I wasn't there because I was focusing on something else and but yeah actually like that if you do decide to go into business man or woman like actually you really need to think about who are you leaving behind at home what's the challenge of that going to be yep if you have kids that adds an extra dimension or dogs or whatever like there's there's always something else to think about but choosing your partner in that can be such an important thing because I meet many entrepreneurs, especially men who they they end up being on their second or third marriage eventually.

there is when one of my years ago, one of my clients around and he's getting married for the third time.

I saw a really interesting kind of video about talking about sort of like as entrepreneurs, we've got three or four sort of like gas stoves, you know, and you can have two of them turned up at any one time, but you can't have three.

And if you're building a business, the chances are you're probably either sacrificing your health or sacrificing your relationships.

And, you know, like out of the three, which two are you focused on right now? And I think that's quite a hard thing because, you know, you have to put enough effort in to build something in scale under 40.

You're in the top half of 1% of entrepreneurs period, right? To get out under 40 is a very rare thing.

And it's like, okay, but actually there's a price for doing that, which I think people don't appreciate or don't understand either because it's easy to go, it's all right for you.

Everything comes with, there's a price, right? And it's often health if it's in your 50s, but people get to the point they've sold and then spend hundreds of thousands trying to rebuild their health.
Well, look, I don't know the exact stat, but the amount of people who run businesses and go through divorce is connected.

If you haven't been divorced as an entrepreneur, either you're not probably trying hard enough or you're very, very lucky.

And I think... you know i've been forward i've coached lots of husband and wife teams and i actually think that's i think that's infinitely harder trying to run a business with your other half it's like i've done it and it's really really hard and it's yeah i mean i think that's that's a recipe for a relationship challenges and then some right
well let me just say this i met my wife on the very first day of university and we've been together for 20 years congratulations yeah thank you but I don't pretend it was easy because actually partly the reason it worked is because nine years I wasn't there because I was focusing on something else and but yeah actually like that if you do decide to go into business man or woman like actually you really need to think about who are you leaving behind at home what's the challenge of that going to be yep if you have kids that adds an extra dimension or dogs or whatever like there's there's always something else to think about but choosing your partner in that can be such an important thing because I meet many entrepreneurs, especially men who they they end up being on their second or third marriage eventually.

there is when one of my years ago, one of my clients around and he's getting married for the third time.
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