The Grace Message with Dr. Andrew Farley
Oct 20, 2026 · 27 min · 12 segments
I was arrested and now nobody at my church will talk to me. I've lost my family, my friends, and everything! What can I do? I had a long-term affair, and now I struggle with the memories of it. What…
Andrew FarleyHostHi.
Thanks for taking my call.
I struggled because I went through a rough time a few years ago.
I got arrested.
It was the first time I've ever been in trouble in my life.
And through the situation, my church of 10 years, where I served in the worship team, I volunteered, I was an employee at one point, completely turned their backs on me and have cut off all communication.
I lost my wife, my children.
And it's just, it's such a painful hurt of rejection And I, I don't get where a church can find reasoning within the scriptures for something like that.
And, and the church hurt is just, it's so overwhelming.
Now it hasn't, you know, through, through the situation, I have grown to love Jesus more than I ever have in my entire life.
Which is wonderful.
Can I ask you just a broad category of what sent you away or what caused you to be arrested?
I was accused of being inappropriate with a woman.
She was underage, yes.
Hi.
Thanks for taking my call.
I struggled because I went through a rough time a few years ago.
I got arrested.
It was the first time I've ever been in trouble in my life.
And through the situation, my church of 10 years, where I served in the worship team, I volunteered, I was an employee at one point, completely turned their backs on me and have cut off all communication.
I lost my wife, my children.
And it's just, it's such a painful hurt of rejection And I, I don't get where a church can find reasoning within the scriptures for something like that.
And, and the church hurt is just, it's so overwhelming.
Now it hasn't, you know, through, through the situation, I have grown to love Jesus more than I ever have in my entire life.
Which is wonderful.
Can I ask you just a broad category of what sent you away or what caused you to be arrested?
I was accused of being inappropriate with a woman.
She was underage, yes.
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