Welcome Friends

friendships and outgrowing friendships.

Have any of you all experienced that? I am going to talk about some, some things, but have y'all experienced that? Most

definitely.

And it's painful.

It is, but it's necessary.

We all have different seasons and the people that are meant to be in your life, they're going to be in your life regardless.

You know, that respect is just going to be there.

That love is going to be there and they're just going to be there, you know, but yeah, we all, I think I've had, I know I've had it.

Yeah, I definitely have.

You know, I had a ex best friend who we were friends since middle school and through high school and college.

And when I was married and I got married, I guess she became extremely jealous about me being married and she wasn't married and she would just...

Wouldn't want me to even share anything about, you know, my marriage with my husband and, you know, whatever we did.

Yeah.

And, you know, she was like, you never tell me about the bad stuff that happens in your marriage.

Oh, wait, what? We used to hear about bad stuff.

Like, why?

Yeah.

And it blew me away because it was like, why? Why would you want that? Yeah.

Why do you feel like that is something that, you know... first of all to me anything that unless you just feel the need to really step out and talk to someone um what stays what happens in your home should stay in your that's exactly

right that's between

you and your

husband and

god yeah and so it was really confusing to me like why she would even want negative stuff but you don't want to hear about anything positive going on so We ended up not being friends anymore.

I mean, I had to let her go because she was showing me her true colors.

Like, you weren't really happy for me.