I’m Worried About My Boyfriend’s Past Sex Life ~ Dr. John Delony

My wife works as a nurse at a large hospital, and I work from home in a tech company.

And some of her interests have kind of changed.

She came home and kind of let me know that she had interest towards a co-worker and kind of caused a little bit of a tough between us.

And then I found out she was hanging out with some of her male doctors at their house.

And she said that she was actually hanging out with some of her other coworkers who were different

in a more social scene.

So I've just been trying to kind of work through that and get on the same page and see what's going on.

I was kind of wondering what your thoughts and opinions were.

I mean, I guess my first thing is my first gut reaction.

And again, this one's a little more challenging because you're not sitting in front of me.

I can't see you.

But it feels like one of two things.

One, you don't fully want to metabolize the seriousness of this, or you've just come up with some safer, more generic, unflavored oatmeal language to describe the fact that your wife is having an affair.

She's cheating on you.

Right.

Which one of those is true? Is it one of just nervous you're on the show and you don't want to like fully dive in or is it just, is it hit differently when you're like, no, my wife's having an affair, she's cheating on me.

And I think my life as I knew it is now over and different now.

Um, I think I'm just trying to come to the sense of reality of it.

There you go.

Okay.

That makes sense.

Yeah, totally.

I mean, your whole world got blown up.

How long have y'all been married?

we've been together for 12 years now and, uh, we got married a little bit before COVID.