Jul 29, 2026 · 12 min · 13 segments
One of my subscribers finally received a text from her avoidant ex. Was it a breadcrumb? Did she respond? In this episode, I analyze her journey from heartbreak to healing, and break down what…
Okay, so she starts by saying, my avoidant situationship ex messaged me again today with a low-effort, happy birthday breadcrumb after he ended things with me.
So I know exactly what many of you are thinking.
Lucia, I'd love to get a text like that from my avoidant.
Yeah, I know.
When you've been missing someone, wondering if they're ever going to reach out, even with something as simple as happy birthday, feels significant.
But before we decide whether this message means anything, let's first understand the relationship because context is everything.
She continues, I wanted to share my story because your videos really helped me understand what happened.
Well, thank you.
Thank you for sharing.
I always appreciate hearing from people after everything has played out because not only does it help me, but it also helps everyone watching realize that they're not alone in what they're going through.
We met on a dating app and the chemistry was definitely there.
We dated for about five months.
He introduced me to his family very quickly.
We celebrated birthdays, together holidays, and I attended many family gatherings.
Okay, so she starts by saying, my avoidant situationship ex messaged me again today with a low-effort, happy birthday breadcrumb after he ended things with me.
So I know exactly what many of you are thinking.
Lucia, I'd love to get a text like that from my avoidant.
Yeah, I know.
When you've been missing someone, wondering if they're ever going to reach out, even with something as simple as happy birthday, feels significant.
But before we decide whether this message means anything, let's first understand the relationship because context is everything.
She continues, I wanted to share my story because your videos really helped me understand what happened.
Well, thank you.
Thank you for sharing.
I always appreciate hearing from people after everything has played out because not only does it help me, but it also helps everyone watching realize that they're not alone in what they're going through.
We met on a dating app and the chemistry was definitely there.
We dated for about five months.
He introduced me to his family very quickly.
We celebrated birthdays, together holidays, and I attended many family gatherings.
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