#182: Cold Approach Is a Non-Negotiable Skill for Men

Yeah.

You have to understand that your identity isn't fixed.

You can always change it.

And you have to understand that it's a skill set like any other.

Like going to the gym at first, maybe you're skinny, you're fat, whatever.

And in a few months, you can change that.

Same thing.

If you're starting broke or you don't come from a wealthy family, you can change that and you can change the trajectory of your whole bloodline if you just work hard and learn the skills and learn business.

And same thing with dating, you know? You could be...

fat or old or young or whatever.

It doesn't matter where you're starting from, you can always improve it.

I'm not saying that you're gonna date necessarily models every week or whatever, but even if you just do a quick, a few improvements, you can get 10 steps ahead from the average guy.

You don't wanna follow what society tells you.

Society is gonna tell you be yourself.

Just, you know, if you're born a certain way, Stay a certain way.

You don't want to be inauthentic.

Just settle for who you are, you know? And that's it.

Be authentic.

Just be yourself.

But you want to go against that.

Just become who you want to become.

Become who you're meant to be.

Life isn't about finding yourself.

For me, that's what I think.

It's about creating yourself.