#172: I Coached Millionaires Who Couldn't Get a Date

For women, it's a bit more like a volume knob.

It's more progressive.

It takes time.

Usually, even if you look good, she still needs to know that, okay, this guy has the right behaviors, the right traits.

He portrays the right confidence, the right assertiveness.

Women need to... basically look at your behaviors more but as men us we're more visual so attraction for us is not necessarily behavioral it's more visual we see a girl we like her even if she's not that crazy personality wise we still get attracted because as men we detect more visual cues like signs of fertility signs of youth signs of ripeness etc right but women are more behavioral They like men who act a certain way.

They want to see that you can provide.

They want to see that you can protect.

They want to see that, okay, this guy has some leadership, right? And so for women, it takes them more time to really trust you and to really feel like, okay, this guy is a guy I can have sex with.

This guy is a guy like, okay, I want to hook up with.

But for guys, it's a bit different.