Sep 10, 2026 · 20 min · 8 segments
This week on the TAG The Girlies Podcast, Reta Riman explores X-Rated Confidence for Grown Women and the art of expressing sensuality through personal style without letting sexuality become the entire…
Reta RimanHost
If you don't know what je ne sais quoi means, I don't know how to describe it to you.

Je ne sais quoi is a thing that makes you like is the feminine, most feminine, most alluring part of a woman.

Your je ne sais quoi is real and is yours to define because sexy looks different on different people.

Now there are different genres of body, but then we're not going to get into that today.

One person's doing too much is someone else's normal and someone else's normal is doing, someone else is doing too much.

So when it comes to your journey, it's like, wow, my love, it's only you that can define it.

Like, you know how like you have that slow blink, like the way you just like curve your wrist sometimes, you know, the way you feel like you're in an old Nollywood movie when you're putting on your perfume in the morning, that little pause people take when you, that little pause, you know, when you walk in and people literally hold their breath and you know when you walk into the room that is your ex appeal that's your je ne sais quoi and it's yours to own and i know you're probably wondering like oh my god what does that look like the thing is when it comes to these things you have to be cooking to be able to find out which tastes better and just because your jello fries was banging yesterday doesn't mean that your jello fries must not be more banging tomorrow because you have to keep dropping heat to heat to heat another banger you cannot remain the same it's only jesus that is the same today tomorrow and forever Yes, you, my darling, have to always find a way to elevate your femininity in the most sensual way that feels so unique to you.

When you start to make yourself blush, You know, it's not really about sex or it's not really about the opposite sex and all of that.

It's just about owning your sex appeal, the way your skin is shown or covered with equal power, you know, because you can decide whatever feels divine, whatever feels like, you know, intimate.

It's basically owning the power that you have, you know, making sure sometimes the way you walk, sometimes the way you smile, sometimes it's the way you smell.

it might be you might be a shy girl that might be your thing like but no one can absolutely figure out what your je ne sais quoi is but you so you owe it to yourself to ensure that you're not necessarily leaning into sexual but you're owning your femininity in a way that makes you feel sensual that makes you feel soft it makes you feel connected to yourself and i know you're probably thinking oh when it comes to energy like some people have more masculine energy than feminine energy but i promise you if 10 a tailor can look the way she looks and still look like one of the sexiest women on earth my darling so can you you can figure it out my love now number three is you have to dress for your own main character energy now we've had thousands and thousands and we'll continue to have thousands of blockbusters You know, thousands of Marilyn of thousands of blockbusters, main characters, you know, popping popular TV shows.

If you don't know what je ne sais quoi means, I don't know how to describe it to you.

Je ne sais quoi is a thing that makes you like is the feminine, most feminine, most alluring part of a woman.

Your je ne sais quoi is real and is yours to define because sexy looks different on different people.

Now there are different genres of body, but then we're not going to get into that today.

One person's doing too much is someone else's normal and someone else's normal is doing, someone else is doing too much.

So when it comes to your journey, it's like, wow, my love, it's only you that can define it.

Like, you know how like you have that slow blink, like the way you just like curve your wrist sometimes, you know, the way you feel like you're in an old Nollywood movie when you're putting on your perfume in the morning, that little pause people take when you, that little pause, you know, when you walk in and people literally hold their breath and you know when you walk into the room that is your ex appeal that's your je ne sais quoi and it's yours to own and i know you're probably wondering like oh my god what does that look like the thing is when it comes to these things you have to be cooking to be able to find out which tastes better and just because your jello fries was banging yesterday doesn't mean that your jello fries must not be more banging tomorrow because you have to keep dropping heat to heat to heat another banger you cannot remain the same it's only jesus that is the same today tomorrow and forever Yes, you, my darling, have to always find a way to elevate your femininity in the most sensual way that feels so unique to you.

When you start to make yourself blush, You know, it's not really about sex or it's not really about the opposite sex and all of that.

It's just about owning your sex appeal, the way your skin is shown or covered with equal power, you know, because you can decide whatever feels divine, whatever feels like, you know, intimate.

It's basically owning the power that you have, you know, making sure sometimes the way you walk, sometimes the way you smile, sometimes it's the way you smell.

it might be you might be a shy girl that might be your thing like but no one can absolutely figure out what your je ne sais quoi is but you so you owe it to yourself to ensure that you're not necessarily leaning into sexual but you're owning your femininity in a way that makes you feel sensual that makes you feel soft it makes you feel connected to yourself and i know you're probably thinking oh when it comes to energy like some people have more masculine energy than feminine energy but i promise you if 10 a tailor can look the way she looks and still look like one of the sexiest women on earth my darling so can you you can figure it out my love now number three is you have to dress for your own main character energy now we've had thousands and thousands and we'll continue to have thousands of blockbusters You know, thousands of Marilyn of thousands of blockbusters, main characters, you know, popping popular TV shows.
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