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The Deletion Was a Mistake
The company admits it handled backlash incorrectly
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Mar 8, 2026 · 16 min · 5 segments
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Mar 8, 2026 · 16 min · 5 segments
Joanna FlemingHostZara SeidlerHostMaddison Sullivan-ThorpeHostAnika Joshi SmithHostWhere do you want us to start? I think, I mean, obviously Never Nice having commentary like the commentary we've had.
I think one thing that we think about when we come into the podcast is that we want it to feel like a wine bar with friends.
And when we saw that video, we did feel really strongly that taste is, you know, so subjective and it was something that everyone can have a different feeling or viewpoint on.
I disagreed with it and I came across on the podcast more aggressive than I would probably like.
And I think one rule we have off mic in the studio is how... would we feel if that person that we're talking about was in the room with us? And I don't think that we got the tone right on that one because if she was here and she had a chair and a cup of tea with us, like we do every Monday when we record, I don't think that would have made her feel great.
And I never want to make a woman and a woman in media and this space that we're in feel that way.
I definitely made... flippant and unnecessarily aggressive comments that were directed towards Tamsin.
And I will say I didn't do my due diligence when it came to looking at the broader context of Tamsin's content and the other content that she creates.
So I also acknowledge I didn't do my due diligence in understanding her as a creator or as a person either before that segment.
And I think as well as women, like, I don't think we've even realized just yet how powerful our influence is and how powerful our platform is on the Stylish podcast.
And where I really feel badly about this is our intentions didn't land where I really had hoped because Tamsin, she has really thought about this.
And I actually did agree with a lot of what she said, but it didn't really come through a lot.
And I think when it comes to our learnings as, you know, three hosts in this room together, we have so much to take away and so much reflection and areas to grow.
And I think going forward, it would be so nice just to have more of that open discussion and actually think about Tamsin and what she would have said in this room.
Where do you want us to start? I think, I mean, obviously Never Nice having commentary like the commentary we've had.
I think one thing that we think about when we come into the podcast is that we want it to feel like a wine bar with friends.
And when we saw that video, we did feel really strongly that taste is, you know, so subjective and it was something that everyone can have a different feeling or viewpoint on.
I disagreed with it and I came across on the podcast more aggressive than I would probably like.
And I think one rule we have off mic in the studio is how... would we feel if that person that we're talking about was in the room with us? And I don't think that we got the tone right on that one because if she was here and she had a chair and a cup of tea with us, like we do every Monday when we record, I don't think that would have made her feel great.
And I never want to make a woman and a woman in media and this space that we're in feel that way.
I definitely made... flippant and unnecessarily aggressive comments that were directed towards Tamsin.
And I will say I didn't do my due diligence when it came to looking at the broader context of Tamsin's content and the other content that she creates.
So I also acknowledge I didn't do my due diligence in understanding her as a creator or as a person either before that segment.
And I think as well as women, like, I don't think we've even realized just yet how powerful our influence is and how powerful our platform is on the Stylish podcast.
And where I really feel badly about this is our intentions didn't land where I really had hoped because Tamsin, she has really thought about this.
And I actually did agree with a lot of what she said, but it didn't really come through a lot.
And I think when it comes to our learnings as, you know, three hosts in this room together, we have so much to take away and so much reflection and areas to grow.
And I think going forward, it would be so nice just to have more of that open discussion and actually think about Tamsin and what she would have said in this room.
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The Deletion Was a Mistake
The company admits it handled backlash incorrectly
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Hosts confront harm caused by aggressive commentary
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