Aug 5, 2026 · 15 min · 6 segments
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Because I don't know if you've noticed, but so often the advice you see around language learning always seems to be geared towards extroverts.
But if you're a tool like me and you identify as an introvert or at least have very strong introverted tendencies, that kind of advice is very, very difficult to take.
The question comes from at Quietly Confident, who actually left this question four years ago.
But we've dug it up from the archives because it's always going to be relevant to lots of people.
Now, at Quietly Confident asked, could you do a video on what your introverted polyglot friends do to learn and maintain languages? Or just share the link if you've already done one.
a lot and in fact I seem to remember about 10 years ago I almost made a whole series of stuff about introversion because I'd noticed that being an introvert myself and knowing a lot of different language learners who were introverted, it really didn't feel like that was catered to at all.
It just felt like all the advice that you would generally see was just not helpful.
It was like, if you take an introvert and you say to them, oh, just walk up to this random person on the street and start talking, you can't imagine anything worse.
Because look, introversion can be a superpower if you know how to harness it properly.
And I think the first part of that is appreciating and understanding, giving yourself permission to ignore a lot of advice out there that is not suitable for you as an introvert.
And you can do that if you can recognize that this advice is probably given by extroverts to other extroverts.
If you give yourself permission to ignore that kind of advice, it immediately liberates you from a lot of the pressure that you might feel to behave or to approach your language learning in certain ways.
Now, I think not the only conclusion, but one of the inevitable conclusions of being an introvert in language learning is that you do tend towards more solo activities.
So all things being equal, rather than going out there and stopping random strangers on the street to talk to them, you're more likely to pick up a book and read.
Because I don't know if you've noticed, but so often the advice you see around language learning always seems to be geared towards extroverts.
But if you're a tool like me and you identify as an introvert or at least have very strong introverted tendencies, that kind of advice is very, very difficult to take.
The question comes from at Quietly Confident, who actually left this question four years ago.
But we've dug it up from the archives because it's always going to be relevant to lots of people.
Now, at Quietly Confident asked, could you do a video on what your introverted polyglot friends do to learn and maintain languages? Or just share the link if you've already done one.
a lot and in fact I seem to remember about 10 years ago I almost made a whole series of stuff about introversion because I'd noticed that being an introvert myself and knowing a lot of different language learners who were introverted, it really didn't feel like that was catered to at all.
It just felt like all the advice that you would generally see was just not helpful.
It was like, if you take an introvert and you say to them, oh, just walk up to this random person on the street and start talking, you can't imagine anything worse.
Because look, introversion can be a superpower if you know how to harness it properly.
And I think the first part of that is appreciating and understanding, giving yourself permission to ignore a lot of advice out there that is not suitable for you as an introvert.
And you can do that if you can recognize that this advice is probably given by extroverts to other extroverts.
If you give yourself permission to ignore that kind of advice, it immediately liberates you from a lot of the pressure that you might feel to behave or to approach your language learning in certain ways.
Now, I think not the only conclusion, but one of the inevitable conclusions of being an introvert in language learning is that you do tend towards more solo activities.
So all things being equal, rather than going out there and stopping random strangers on the street to talk to them, you're more likely to pick up a book and read.
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