Oct 16, 2026 · 20 min · 11 segments
Here is why... Pausing before speaking to avoid causing unnecessary hurt. Including someone so they never feel left out. Giving space when it is needed most... even if you miss them or love them…
Feelings to show someone you care or you observing what a person needs and you're providing that.
Sometimes it's mindfulness in your decisions and how they can affect another person.
You remember what they don't like, what they cannot stand, what makes them sick.
Um, and you include these people in your plan so they can feel a part of an event, a part of a holiday, a part of, you know, your next big move.
Because personally, I just can't see myself with a man who is inconsiderate.
The way that I live is because I am considerate of my kids' needs and then mine.
And then if I do have room to add someone else or something else to the mix of that, I will.
Any relationship I'm in, they have to make moves where they consider their kids also.
A father who is okay doing for himself first and acting like his kids does not exist.
Because when y'all have kids, what do you think he's going to do? That's a lack daddy.
A pretty boy is a grown man who is more concerned of what he looked like, what he has, what other people think about him to the T.
Feelings to show someone you care or you observing what a person needs and you're providing that.
Sometimes it's mindfulness in your decisions and how they can affect another person.
You remember what they don't like, what they cannot stand, what makes them sick.
Um, and you include these people in your plan so they can feel a part of an event, a part of a holiday, a part of, you know, your next big move.
Because personally, I just can't see myself with a man who is inconsiderate.
The way that I live is because I am considerate of my kids' needs and then mine.
And then if I do have room to add someone else or something else to the mix of that, I will.
Any relationship I'm in, they have to make moves where they consider their kids also.
A father who is okay doing for himself first and acting like his kids does not exist.
Because when y'all have kids, what do you think he's going to do? That's a lack daddy.
A pretty boy is a grown man who is more concerned of what he looked like, what he has, what other people think about him to the T.
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