Aug 16, 2026 · 46 min · 10 segments
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Yeah, so the first topic y'all, I know y'all, we told y'all in the beginning that we are from a small area.
We are from Lake County and there was a recent incident that went viral and four women were in the car and they were drinking and driving and they got into an accident and it went mega viral.
like everywhere you know the shade room the neighborhood talk all the blogs you know it's made national news and um a lot of people have been really judgmental they've been like saying different things about it and like oh because they some one girl went live and i think another girl went on her story and posted videos of the drivers actually drinking and like they had the bottles and you know what i'm saying yeah and then speeding you know it was
recorded that At one point, it was 116 miles, and at another point, 92 miles.
Yeah.
Which, granted, all of those things are things to consider in the factors of the demise of them losing their lives.
That's definitely something to consider.
But a lot of the backlash that they're
getting,
they're not here to respond to their actions.
Yeah.
You feel me? Like, they don't get a choice to respond now.
So the, oh, this is why I don't do this, and this is why I do this, and ooh, they was wrong for this, and they were wrong for that.
It doesn't matter what they are, because they aren't here anymore.
spreading love and awareness means more hey you guys look at what happened to these young ladies you know don't make these decisions because now their families are mourning for them you don't want your families to mourn for you you know two of the young ladies i'm related to so it hits home the other one is a classmate the other one her mother was dating someone in my family for years so she's basically family as well and you know she's recovering right now but It's a very hard pill to swallow to see your city go viral and didn't go viral in the way you thought it would
go.
You know, it just went viral because of Pies.
Being there and they had the car show and all those things.
And it was like, wow, the little city I'm from is put on the
map.
But it's crazy that something like this, something so tragic, made more impact than even that did.
So it's just...
it was a lot.
Yeah,
and I think people been so, they been too judgmental.
Yeah, so the first topic y'all, I know y'all, we told y'all in the beginning that we are from a small area.
We are from Lake County and there was a recent incident that went viral and four women were in the car and they were drinking and driving and they got into an accident and it went mega viral.
like everywhere you know the shade room the neighborhood talk all the blogs you know it's made national news and um a lot of people have been really judgmental they've been like saying different things about it and like oh because they some one girl went live and i think another girl went on her story and posted videos of the drivers actually drinking and like they had the bottles and you know what i'm saying yeah and then speeding you know it was
recorded that At one point, it was 116 miles, and at another point, 92 miles.
Yeah.
Which, granted, all of those things are things to consider in the factors of the demise of them losing their lives.
That's definitely something to consider.
But a lot of the backlash that they're
getting,
they're not here to respond to their actions.
Yeah.
You feel me? Like, they don't get a choice to respond now.
So the, oh, this is why I don't do this, and this is why I do this, and ooh, they was wrong for this, and they were wrong for that.
It doesn't matter what they are, because they aren't here anymore.
spreading love and awareness means more hey you guys look at what happened to these young ladies you know don't make these decisions because now their families are mourning for them you don't want your families to mourn for you you know two of the young ladies i'm related to so it hits home the other one is a classmate the other one her mother was dating someone in my family for years so she's basically family as well and you know she's recovering right now but It's a very hard pill to swallow to see your city go viral and didn't go viral in the way you thought it would
go.
You know, it just went viral because of Pies.
Being there and they had the car show and all those things.
And it was like, wow, the little city I'm from is put on the
map.
But it's crazy that something like this, something so tragic, made more impact than even that did.
So it's just...
it was a lot.
Yeah,
and I think people been so, they been too judgmental.
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