Mar 31, 2026 · 23 min · 13 segments
Welcome to Episode 484 of the Sexology Podcast! Today I am excited to be joined by Genevieve Lejeune, who speaks to me about the evolution of sexual identity and the importance of creating safe spaces…
Nazanin MoaliHostWelcome to Sexology, a podcast that untangles the science of sex and pleasure.
And now, with this week's episode, your host, clinical psychologist, Dr. Nazanin Moali.
And today we're talking about something that can shake even the strongest relationships.
What happens when a partner's sexual identity begins to evolve? When someone you love start questioning, expanding, or redefining their sexuality, what's the first thing that gets triggered? Is it fear of losing the relationship? Fear of not being enough? Fear of no longer being chosen? These moments can feel destabilizing, not just for the partner exploring, but for the partner standing still.
And if they're not handled carefully, panic can replace curiosity very quickly.
My guest today is Genevieve Lejeune, founder of Skirt Club, a global members club for bicarious and bisexual women with over 25,000 members worldwide.
Genevieve has been at the forefront of women's sexual empowerment, creating spaces where women can explore desire with confidence and autonomy.
In this episode, we unpack what sexual identity evolution really threatens inside relationships, how to talk about it without rushing into ultimatums or false reassurance, and what emotional safety actually looks like for the partner who isn't exploring.
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Welcome to Sexology, a podcast that untangles the science of sex and pleasure.
And now, with this week's episode, your host, clinical psychologist, Dr. Nazanin Moali.
And today we're talking about something that can shake even the strongest relationships.
What happens when a partner's sexual identity begins to evolve? When someone you love start questioning, expanding, or redefining their sexuality, what's the first thing that gets triggered? Is it fear of losing the relationship? Fear of not being enough? Fear of no longer being chosen? These moments can feel destabilizing, not just for the partner exploring, but for the partner standing still.
And if they're not handled carefully, panic can replace curiosity very quickly.
My guest today is Genevieve Lejeune, founder of Skirt Club, a global members club for bicarious and bisexual women with over 25,000 members worldwide.
Genevieve has been at the forefront of women's sexual empowerment, creating spaces where women can explore desire with confidence and autonomy.
In this episode, we unpack what sexual identity evolution really threatens inside relationships, how to talk about it without rushing into ultimatums or false reassurance, and what emotional safety actually looks like for the partner who isn't exploring.
