And we are beyond just our, you know, mental health space, right? Just generally, I feel like we're living in this increasingly show me world.
Every platform is asking us to post more, show up more, be more visible, build a following, chase engagement, optimize for the algorithm, scale, grow, convert followers into subscribers, into paying folks.
And when most of us as clinicians, we hear those words, there's something in us that quietly recoils, not because we're lazy, uh, not because we don't care about our work, but because those words feel like they belong to a different value system.
One that centers the self instead of the other, one that performs instead of connects, and one that optimizes instead of listens and goes deeply.
And you and I, we were trained deliberately and intentionally to do the opposite of all of those things.
And here's what I wanna explore today, which is what if that recoil isn't the problem? What if conventional marketing advice is actually wrong for therapists? Not because we are necessarily bad at marketing, but because the model was never designed for people like us.
And what if in this specific moment in history, the skills that we have developed over many sessions are becoming the most valuable content skill that's on the internet? Think about what clinical training actually teaches you.
You and I have spent years learning to center the other person, not yourself.
Now, think about what conventional social media marketing acts asks us to do.
These are not just different skills, they're opposite orientations, and when a therapist tries to do conventional marketing, they're not failing because they're incompetent.
I tried to post more, I tried to engage more, I tried to optimize more, and some of it worked to some degree.
The content that lo- landed the most powerfully was never the most optimized content.
And we are beyond just our, you know, mental health space, right? Just generally, I feel like we're living in this increasingly show me world.
Every platform is asking us to post more, show up more, be more visible, build a following, chase engagement, optimize for the algorithm, scale, grow, convert followers into subscribers, into paying folks.
And when most of us as clinicians, we hear those words, there's something in us that quietly recoils, not because we're lazy, uh, not because we don't care about our work, but because those words feel like they belong to a different value system.
One that centers the self instead of the other, one that performs instead of connects, and one that optimizes instead of listens and goes deeply.
And you and I, we were trained deliberately and intentionally to do the opposite of all of those things.
And here's what I wanna explore today, which is what if that recoil isn't the problem? What if conventional marketing advice is actually wrong for therapists? Not because we are necessarily bad at marketing, but because the model was never designed for people like us.
And what if in this specific moment in history, the skills that we have developed over many sessions are becoming the most valuable content skill that's on the internet? Think about what clinical training actually teaches you.
You and I have spent years learning to center the other person, not yourself.
Now, think about what conventional social media marketing acts asks us to do.
These are not just different skills, they're opposite orientations, and when a therapist tries to do conventional marketing, they're not failing because they're incompetent.
I tried to post more, I tried to engage more, I tried to optimize more, and some of it worked to some degree.
The content that lo- landed the most powerfully was never the most optimized content.
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