Relational Longevity, A Podcast For Couples
Sep 30, 2026 · 28 min · 7 segments
How do you actually deepen your relationship? Jayson and Ellen unpack the advice men and women often give each other for creating more connection and where those approaches miss the mark. They explore…
Ellen BoederHost
Jayson GaddisHost
It's, uh, something I've get asked about for years, primarily from men, which is how do I, it's phrased either.

How do I have a deeper relationship with my wife? How do we as a couple get to know each other better? How do we, um, have a deep connection? Um, and, We've kind of, we're a little, we have a good relationship, but I want to take it to the next level.

And because a lot of times just out in society, it seems like women are often asking this question about how can I deepen my relationship? How can I get more connected to my partner? Like, how can we have more of what's good here? Yeah.

And I just think it's cool to hear that you're like, yeah, there's lots of men who also are asking that question and come to you or...

These are men in personal growth oriented communities that I've been a part of for, you know, many, many years.

And what's so interesting to me, and I think to you, Ellen, is how these conversations happen.

And I've seen them happen in text threads and forums that I'm a part of online.

I've seen them in group settings where men will ask the group of men questions.

It's, uh, something I've get asked about for years, primarily from men, which is how do I, it's phrased either.

How do I have a deeper relationship with my wife? How do we as a couple get to know each other better? How do we, um, have a deep connection? Um, and, We've kind of, we're a little, we have a good relationship, but I want to take it to the next level.

And because a lot of times just out in society, it seems like women are often asking this question about how can I deepen my relationship? How can I get more connected to my partner? Like, how can we have more of what's good here? Yeah.

And I just think it's cool to hear that you're like, yeah, there's lots of men who also are asking that question and come to you or...

These are men in personal growth oriented communities that I've been a part of for, you know, many, many years.

And what's so interesting to me, and I think to you, Ellen, is how these conversations happen.

And I've seen them happen in text threads and forums that I'm a part of online.

I've seen them in group settings where men will ask the group of men questions.
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