How to Thrive in the In-Between: Finding Yourself in Midlife Between What Was and What Can Be

**How to Thrive in the In-Between: Finding Yourself in Midlife Between What Was and What Can Be** You’ve made the decision. Taken the leap. Left something behind. But you don’t quite know what comes next. **Welcome to the in-between.** Sometimes scary. Often exhilarating. Never a dull moment. I would know. After moving to Philadelphia at 61, I’m discovering something unexpected: **my outer life can still be taking shape while I feel settled within myself.** There are boxes to unpack, routines to discover, and connections to nurture. And I don’t feel any urgency to figure it all out. In this solo episode of Reinvention Rebels, I explore **midlife reinvention** through the small, everyday experiences helping me discover my new chapter. From a meaningful neighborhood gallery visit to making plans with friends and finding out where I do, and don’t, want to buy a latte, curiosity is leading the way. These small experiments are reminding me that we can try things, change our minds, and trust what we learn. **You don’t have to prove you chose correctly** Have you ever made a big life change and then felt pressure to make everything that followed look fabulous? You chose yourself. Took the leap. Changed something. And now you feel like you’re supposed to create the perfect next chapter to prove it was all worth it. That’s a lot to carry. What if you gave yourself permission to experiment? To discover that something you thought you wanted doesn’t fit? Or to love something you never imagined trying? **That isn’t failure. That’s information. That’s discernment. That’s self-trust.** **In this episode, we explore:** 🌿 **Finding calm within change:** How you can feel grounded within yourself while life around you is still unsettled. 🔎 **Following your curiosity:** Exploring what interests you without needing every experience to lead somewhere profound. 💛 **Building self-trust:** Letting both the things you enjoy and the things you don’t teach you about yourself. 📐 **Releasing the old blueprint:** Putting down inherited expectations without immediately drawing a new life plan in permanent ink. 🤝 **Making connections after 50:** Acting on your interests, extending invitations, and allowing friendships to develop organically. ✨ **Living your next chapter now:** Giving yourself permission to enjoy life before everything is unpacked, organized, or figured out. **What can be?** Earlier on the podcast, I explored the blueprints we inherit about success, relationships, aging, and who we’re supposed to become. This episode takes that conversation a step further: **once you put down someone else’s blueprint, you can give yourself time to discover what fits.** A conversation. An invitation. A little experiment. Each can help you notice what brings you alive. There’s room for possibility in **what can be**, and you don’t need a complete picture before you begin. **A reminder for your own in-between** “I’m not trying to build my new life as quickly as possible. I’m letting myself discover it.” Whether you’re navigating **retirement, a move, a career change, an empty nest**, or a quieter shift you can’t yet name, your life is happening now. **The in-between isn’t empty space. It’s life.** This chapter counts, even while it’s unfolding. **Try one little experiment** Choose something that sparks your curiosity. Take one small step toward it, then notice how the experience feels. Would you like more of it? Would you try it differently? Or have you learned it’s simply not for you? You’re gathering information about the life you want to live. **Mentioned in this episode** 🎧 Become the Architect of Your Own Life: Rewriting Your Midlife Blueprint Explore the expectations you inherited and begin making choices that reflect who you are today. ✨ 100 Ways to Become More You My free guide offers small sparks, brave experiments, and possibilities for women 50+. Find something that lights you up and take one small step toward it. Download the guide. 🎙️ **October Podcast Partner:** Aging with Purpose and Passion Check out my friend Beverley Glazer’s podcast for more stories and inspiration about what’s possible after 50. **Your next little spark** What are you curious about right now, and what would happen if you followed that curiosity one tiny step? Loving the show? Text us and let us know! 😊 Support the show \*\*\*\*\*\*\*\** Thanks for joining me, let's reinvent and get inspired together! **Please Share What You Loved** Your feedback means everything to me! If you enjoyed this episode please rate and review on Apple Podcasts, Podchaser, Castbox or leave a comment at reinventionrebels.com**.** **Let's connect:** Instagram: @reinventionrebels Facebook: @ReinventionRebels