7 Ways You Abandon Yourself Without Realizing It

This episode is brought to you by Redefining Wealth LIVE. Join me for the transformational experience that will challenge the way you think about success, wealth, and well-being. Redefining Wealth LIVE is where purpose-driven individuals come together to gain clarity, alignment, and momentum in creating lives that truly reflect their values. If you’re ready to break free from default thinking and step into a more fulfilled, abundant life, don’t miss this event. ✨ About This Season: Redefining Love 2.0 This season of Redefining Wealth is dedicated to redefining what love really means — beyond romance and into how we love ourselves, others, God, and the lives we’re creating. We’re exploring what it looks like to love without leaving yourself behind — through relationships, self-trust, reciprocity, obedience, and the Six Pillars of Wealth. Subscribe and journey with us as we learn to love without self-abandonment and honor who we are becoming.   Episode Summary In this powerful solo episode, Patrice Washington breaks down seven ways self-abandonment can hide behind qualities we normally celebrate. Being understanding can become explaining away behavior you already know doesn’t work for you. Responsibility can turn into carrying what was never yours. Generosity can become constantly paying the difference, while flexibility and loyalty can keep you betraying your own standards or staying beyond a season’s expiration date. Patrice reminds us that self-abandonment doesn’t always look like insecurity—it can look polished, accomplished, capable, and incredibly successful. Through the lens of Redefining Love 2.0, Patrice challenges listeners to examine when their greatest strengths—compassion, responsibility, generosity, flexibility, loyalty, ambition, and faith—stop serving them and start becoming tools for self-betrayal. From over-functioning for others to chasing someone else’s definition of success or continuing to pray for clarity God may have already provided, this episode invites you to recognize the patterns hiding in plain sight. The question to carry forward is simple but powerful: Am I doing this from love, or am I doing this at the expense of myself?   *Questions to Ask Yourself:* *Where am I using understanding or compassion to explain away something I already know doesn’t work for me?* *What am I carrying simply because I’m capable, even though it isn’t actually my responsibility?* *Where am I giving so much that generosity has started turning into resentment?* *What governing decision or standard have I been abandoning in the name of flexibility or loyalty?* *Where might I already have clarity but be waiting for more signs because I’m afraid of what acting on it will require?*   Want to Redefine Wealth for Yourself? Start Here: 🧭 Take the 2-Minute Pillar Quiz to identify which pillar needs your attention in this season: https://patricewashington.com/quiz 📱 Join the FREE Redefining Wealth App (community, book club, and weekly LIVE sessions with Patrice): https://patricewashington.com/redefining-wealth-app/ 💛 Explore Pillar Mastery: https://pillarmastery.com 🎓 Join the Waitlist to The Institute for Redefining Wealth: https://redefiningwealth.institute/ Resources Mentioned:  Redefining Wealth LIVE: www.redefiningwealthlive.com - where purpose-driven individuals come together to gain clarity, alignment, and momentum in creating lives that truly reflect their values. If you’re ready to break free from default thinking and step into a more fulfilled, abundant life, don’t miss this event. 📘 Download the Six Pillars Cheat Sheet: https://patricewashington.com/6pillars