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How to get the sex you crave with Honeydew Me

May 12, 2026 · 1 hr 4 min · 24 segments

This week, we are talking to Cass and Emma from the Honeydew Me Podcast about how to get the sex you crave! We cover how to feel confident in the bedroom, how to learn what you like, why your 30s are…

This week, we are talking to Cass and Emma from the Honeydew Me Podcast about how to get the sex you crave! We cover how to feel confident in the bedroom, how to learn what you like, why your 30s are great, how to bring up fantasies to your partner, how to let go of shame around sex, how to talk about sex with your partner, decentering men, and why sex in your 30s is better. We also nibble on Bravo, Secret Lives of Mormon Wives, Real Housewives of Rhode Island, OCD treatment, anxiety, friendships, dating, friendships in your 30s, movie theater etiquette, birth control, CVS, and breaking free from religion.

This week, we are talking to Cass and Emma from the Honeydew Me Podcast about how to get the sex you crave! We cover how to feel confident in the bedroom, how to learn what you like, why your 30s are…

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Speakers: EmmaGuestCassGuestAbigail JensenHost

Top entities: obsessive-compulsive disorder×6 Reality television×3 Intrauterine device×2 Wuthering Heights humor×3

Show signals: SuitabilityLimitedBiasNot politicalAudience≈125k followers

Markers, Mental Health, and Finding Confidence1:29 – 4:03

C

CassGuest

1:29

Yeah, I think I hit a lot of the markers that I was, quote, unquote, "supposed to."

A

Abigail JensenHost

1:33

Mm-hmm.

C

CassGuest

1:34

I got married.

C

CassGuest

1:35

I had a baby.

C

CassGuest

1:36

Like, I did those things, but I was like, "Why do I still feel like shit?" Like, I did all the things I was supposed to.

A

Abigail JensenHost

1:40

Yeah.

C

CassGuest

1:41

I, I did what they told me I needed to do to be happy, and I still felt so insecure.

C

CassGuest

1:46

I felt like I had no idea what I was doing, and so I didn't wanna set that example for my daughter.

C

CassGuest

1:51

So I did a lot of stuff that I probably needed to do for years, like got treatment for my OCD, went through an intensive outpatient program.

C

CassGuest

1:59

Like, really started putting myself out there in ways that I thought I had to wait until I was confident to do.

A

Abigail JensenHost

2:06

Mm-hmm.

C

CassGuest

2:06

But then I found out that doing those things is what brought me the confidence.

C

CassGuest

2:10

And so I think as I'm entering my 30s, I just want it to be about...

C

CassGuest

2:16

Ugh, I feel like I'm gonna sound, sound like Kylie Jenner, like, just doing things.

A

Abigail JensenHost

2:19

Just doing-

C

CassGuest

2:19

My 30s is just about doing things.

A

Abigail JensenHost

2:22

You know, she's a thought leader.

A

Abigail JensenHost

2:24

[laughs]

E

EmmaGuest

2:24

No, but it is.

C

CassGuest

2:24

And she is.

C

CassGuest

2:25

T-H-O-T, thought leader.

C

CassGuest

2:27

[laughs]

A

Abigail JensenHost

2:29

[laughs]

E

EmmaGuest

2:29

[laughs]

C

CassGuest

2:29

But yeah, I think I just...

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Markers, Mental Health, and Finding Confidence1:29 – 4:03

C

CassGuest

1:29

Yeah, I think I hit a lot of the markers that I was, quote, unquote, "supposed to."

A

Abigail JensenHost

1:33

Mm-hmm.

C

CassGuest

1:34

I got married.

C

CassGuest

1:35

I had a baby.

C

CassGuest

1:36

Like, I did those things, but I was like, "Why do I still feel like shit?" Like, I did all the things I was supposed to.

A

Abigail JensenHost

1:40

Yeah.

C

CassGuest

1:41

I, I did what they told me I needed to do to be happy, and I still felt so insecure.

C

CassGuest

1:46

I felt like I had no idea what I was doing, and so I didn't wanna set that example for my daughter.

C

CassGuest

1:51

So I did a lot of stuff that I probably needed to do for years, like got treatment for my OCD, went through an intensive outpatient program.

C

CassGuest

1:59

Like, really started putting myself out there in ways that I thought I had to wait until I was confident to do.

A

Abigail JensenHost

2:06

Mm-hmm.

C

CassGuest

2:06

But then I found out that doing those things is what brought me the confidence.

C

CassGuest

2:10

And so I think as I'm entering my 30s, I just want it to be about...

C

CassGuest

2:16

Ugh, I feel like I'm gonna sound, sound like Kylie Jenner, like, just doing things.

A

Abigail JensenHost

2:19

Just doing-

C

CassGuest

2:19

My 30s is just about doing things.

A

Abigail JensenHost

2:22

You know, she's a thought leader.

A

Abigail JensenHost

2:24

[laughs]

E

EmmaGuest

2:24

No, but it is.

C

CassGuest

2:24

And she is.

C

CassGuest

2:25

T-H-O-T, thought leader.

C

CassGuest

2:27

[laughs]

A

Abigail JensenHost

2:29

[laughs]

E

EmmaGuest

2:29

[laughs]

C

CassGuest

2:29

But yeah, I think I just...

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