21. The Fall Reset | What you Need to Audit Before You Can Lock In

Every fall reset starts the same way — a new routine, a new planner, a fresh list of goals stacked on top of a life that's already completely full. And by mid-October, it's gone, every time. So try a different question this year: what would you have to take away before any of that could actually fit? In this episode, Monti makes the case that fall, not January, is the real window to lock in for the rest of the year — and that a reset only works if you subtract first. You'll get the one question that tells you whether anything in your life is still worth what it's costing you, a five-part audit that runs through your home, your calendar, your people, your attention, and the goal list nobody ever thinks to look at, and the move at the end that turns four ordinary months into the stretch where you finally finish something. **In this episode of The Purfect Sunday Podcast:** - **Why January is the worst time to set a goal** — what really happens to all that New Year momentum somewhere around the first warm week, and why the window that opens as summer winds down is the one that keeps producing finished goals instead of abandoned ones - **Everything you own is charging you rent** — the subscription nobody thinks of as a subscription, why the real cost of most things never shows up as hours anywhere on your calendar, and the single question to run every commitment through before you decide to keep it - **Stop organizing and start subtracting** — why bins, labels and matching containers quietly make the problem permanent, where to start so the momentum carries you into the harder rooms, and the three-category sort that makes your closet easy again - **The recurring yes you never re-decided** — how to spot the standing commitments that expired years ago, the honest reason canceling one feels like letting somebody down when nobody would even notice, and the invisible labor that never made it onto the calendar in the first place - **Two questions for the people in your rotation** — how to tell which relationships you're actually choosing from the ones running purely on history, and how almost any of them can be adjusted quietly, with no confrontation and nobody having a crisis about it - **About forty things have permission to interrupt you** — what constant notifications cost you beyond the interruption itself, why this was never a focus problem or a discipline problem, and the fix that takes about two minutes and no announcement - **The one nobody ever audits — your goal list** — why a long list is the most reliable way to guarantee none of it happens, what to cross off before anything else, and how to land on the single goal worth locking in on between now and December 31st **Sunday Obsession**  Sequin Supreme SPF 50 glow-boosting priming sunscreen **Loved This Episode?** If you're enjoying the show, a 5-star rating and a review mean the world and help more women find the show. **Subscribe** so you never miss a new episode of The Purfect Sunday Podcast - To connect with Monti on **I**nstagram, click HERE - To follow Purfect Sunday on **Instagram,** click HERE - Follow me on **Substack** HERE - To check out my **ShopMy,** click HERE - To check out my **LTK**, click HERE - To check out my **Amazon Storefront,** click HERE - To join the Purfect Sunday Newsletter HERE Explore more on **health, fashion, fitness, self-care routines, and glow-up habits** at www.PurfectSunday.com ***Thank you for spending your Sunday with me*** 💛