There's no safe investment to love at all is to be vulnerable.
To love anything invites the possibility your heart will be wrung and broken.
If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one.
Wrap it carefully around with hobbies and little luxuries.
Avoid all entanglements.
Lock it up safe in the casket of your selfishness.
But in that casket, it's safe, dark, motionless, and airless.
And it will change.
It will not be broken.
It will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable.
The alternative to tragedy, or at least the risk of tragedy, is damnation.
The only place outside of heaven where you can be perfectly safe from all the dangers and perturbations of love.
And that place is hell.
The only complete heart is a heart willing to be broken.
Lala Rose, I think, basically wrote that.
Yeah, lock it up.
So the...
Yeah, we all want to do that and then don't want to do that.
Then want to do that.
Wish we did that.
That's just life.
It's just life.
Yeah, we're more complete because of love.
For sure.
Definitely deeper.
There's no safe investment to love at all is to be vulnerable.
To love anything invites the possibility your heart will be wrung and broken.
If you want to make sure of keeping it intact, you must give your heart to no one.
Wrap it carefully around with hobbies and little luxuries.
Avoid all entanglements.
Lock it up safe in the casket of your selfishness.
But in that casket, it's safe, dark, motionless, and airless.
And it will change.
It will not be broken.
It will become unbreakable, impenetrable, irredeemable.
The alternative to tragedy, or at least the risk of tragedy, is damnation.
The only place outside of heaven where you can be perfectly safe from all the dangers and perturbations of love.
And that place is hell.
The only complete heart is a heart willing to be broken.
Lala Rose, I think, basically wrote that.
Yeah, lock it up.
So the...
Yeah, we all want to do that and then don't want to do that.
Then want to do that.
Wish we did that.
That's just life.
It's just life.
Yeah, we're more complete because of love.
For sure.
Definitely deeper.
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