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Not Afraid To

Not Afraid To

Episode 12: Not Afraid to Never Settle

Jul 31, 2026 · 29 min · 11 segments

Listen if there’s a change you need to make in order to be more free. Can you trust that feeling, no matter the cost? Raya delivers the unexpected in this episode! Together, Brooke and her explore…

Listen if there’s a change you need to make in order to be more free. Can you trust that feeling, no matter the cost? Raya delivers the unexpected in this episode! Together, Brooke and her explore what’s the cost of your freedom? And how to alchemize anything that’s happened in your life into a lesson for your expansion. In this episode, Raya shares one of the most important ‘choice points’ in her life, choosing to trust her intuition that guided her to divorce her ex-husband and embody her own truth and power no matter the cost. This lesson is one that offers a radical view on trusting and acting on your intuition and how everything has the ability to support your expansion. Raya and Brooke also share potent wisdom about money that may surprise you! Enjoy our most unhinged episode to date! May you use this as an invitation to not settle for anything less than your most magical life! **Connect and Share** The Pod’s Instagram: @notafraidtopodcast Raya’s Instagram: @sharayafriesen Brooke’s Instagram: @brookeisfearless Raya’s Website: rayafriesen.com Brooke’s Website: vancouverconstellations.com

Listen if there’s a change you need to make in order to be more free. Can you trust that feeling, no matter the cost? Raya delivers the unexpected in this episode! Together, Brooke and her explore…

Speakers: Raya FriesenHostBrooke RamsayHost

Top entities: Instagram×10 humor×2 British Columbia Canada×2 Vancouver

Divorce & Surprise Lawsuit1:16 – 2:38

Raya FriesenHost

1:16

around eight years ago now that I asked my ex-husband for a divorce.

Raya FriesenHost

1:26

And that's not the shocking part.

Raya FriesenHost

1:29

It's what

Brooke RamsayHost

1:29

happened after.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:32

Everyone's done that.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:34

Yeah, that's not super common.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:35

We've already talked about how.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:35

They're uncommon.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:36

What did we say about divorce? It's

Raya FriesenHost

1:37

fabulous.

Raya FriesenHost

1:38

Oh, yeah, that's right.

Raya FriesenHost

1:39

Fabulous.

Raya FriesenHost

1:39

Yeah.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:40

And he was very, very triggered.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:45

So, well, yeah, if I didn't get to be married to you and I was married to you, I'd be upset.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:49

Yeah.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:50

I would like to keep that.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:51

Yeah.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:52

Keep a good thing going.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:53

What do they say? Like, lock it

Brooke RamsayHost

1:54

down.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:55

He thought he locked it down and then you unlocked

Raya FriesenHost

1:58

it.

Raya FriesenHost

1:58

He locked it down.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:58

And then you unlocked it and he was bothered.

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Divorce & Surprise Lawsuit1:16 – 2:38

Raya FriesenHost

1:16

around eight years ago now that I asked my ex-husband for a divorce.

Raya FriesenHost

1:26

And that's not the shocking part.

Raya FriesenHost

1:29

It's what

Brooke RamsayHost

1:29

happened after.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:32

Everyone's done that.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:34

Yeah, that's not super common.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:35

We've already talked about how.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:35

They're uncommon.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:36

What did we say about divorce? It's

Raya FriesenHost

1:37

fabulous.

Raya FriesenHost

1:38

Oh, yeah, that's right.

Raya FriesenHost

1:39

Fabulous.

Raya FriesenHost

1:39

Yeah.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:40

And he was very, very triggered.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:45

So, well, yeah, if I didn't get to be married to you and I was married to you, I'd be upset.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:49

Yeah.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:50

I would like to keep that.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:51

Yeah.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:52

Keep a good thing going.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:53

What do they say? Like, lock it

Brooke RamsayHost

1:54

down.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:55

He thought he locked it down and then you unlocked

Raya FriesenHost

1:58

it.

Raya FriesenHost

1:58

He locked it down.

Brooke RamsayHost

1:58

And then you unlocked it and he was bothered.

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