Sep 21, 2026 · 21 min · 10 segments
You can put a lot of effort into fixing your marriage and still feel like nothing is changing if you're solving the wrong problem. In this special episode, I'm giving you a listen inside my new…
Lindsay CavanaghHost
If you are listening to this, you probably are struggling with your spouse and with your marriage.
Again, you can always take my newly updated interactive marriage shutdown checklist if you want to know for sure.
You are likely the default parent and you are feeling overworked and underappreciated, or you feel like you're being forced by your spouse and would rather be listening to anything else, but you're tired of feeling like you can never get it right.
You are tired of fighting constantly and just so over feeling like your spouse doesn't care, doesn't care to help, doesn't care about your feelings, doesn't care about your needs.
So the shifts that I'm going to talk about throughout this course are the shifts that bring you big results when it comes to getting out of marriage shutdown and feeling cared for again.
Like literally no one is talking about them and how important they are to feeling good after having kids.
And I'm so passionate about sharing this stuff because I feel like it isn't talked about enough.
And even if some of these things that I'm going to say feel obvious once you hear them, putting them into practice, especially when you have kids, is just really challenging.
So these are the things that have worked in my own marriage and work with my clients as well.
So I want to talk about how to rebuild the love and care that's been missing since you've had kids and go through the first of the three shifts to get you there.
If you are listening to this, you probably are struggling with your spouse and with your marriage.
Again, you can always take my newly updated interactive marriage shutdown checklist if you want to know for sure.
You are likely the default parent and you are feeling overworked and underappreciated, or you feel like you're being forced by your spouse and would rather be listening to anything else, but you're tired of feeling like you can never get it right.
You are tired of fighting constantly and just so over feeling like your spouse doesn't care, doesn't care to help, doesn't care about your feelings, doesn't care about your needs.
So the shifts that I'm going to talk about throughout this course are the shifts that bring you big results when it comes to getting out of marriage shutdown and feeling cared for again.
Like literally no one is talking about them and how important they are to feeling good after having kids.
And I'm so passionate about sharing this stuff because I feel like it isn't talked about enough.
And even if some of these things that I'm going to say feel obvious once you hear them, putting them into practice, especially when you have kids, is just really challenging.
So these are the things that have worked in my own marriage and work with my clients as well.
So I want to talk about how to rebuild the love and care that's been missing since you've had kids and go through the first of the three shifts to get you there.
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